Do Women Hate Themselves and Love Men?
Do Men Love Themselves and Hate Women?
HATE: 1 to dislike intensely or passionately; feel extreme aversion for or
extreme hostility toward; detest: to hate the enemy; to hate bigotry.
from William Bond:
Dear Rasa,
I think it important for Women to own up to hating men. Simply because it
would be completely unreasonable for men who have hated Women for thousands
of years but when Women start to hate men for all the abuse they have
recieved, for men to get very moral and say; "you must not do that!" that
would be hypocritical.
I have met many Women who clearly do hate men, but will not admit to it. One
of them is Nancy, she is always running down men but says she doesn't want
to hate men. Which is understandable, as hate is not a very nice emotion.
But while Women still live in a patriarchal society it is hard for Women to
learn to
love themselves, without hating men.
Also i think a lot of Women don't want to hate because if they do, they feel
they are no better than men. So they are trying to take a high moral tone of
saying;
"men hate because they are brutes, but we Women are
above all that". But in the end even though Women are resisting hating, it
does come to the surface, and
they end up only pretending not to hate men.
I suppose my response comes from what I learnt
writing, "Gospel Of The Goddess". In this book we are saying; When we move
from the Great Mother as baby souls we have problems is learning how to both
love ourselves and love others at the same time. So Women choose to learn
how to love others first, while men chose to learn how to love themselves.
This would
create the patriarchal age, who would reinforce this
buy teaching men to love themselves and hate others.
While women are taught to love others, (mostly men)
and hate themselves.
Then as we move to a Matriarchal age, the sexes would change role and Women
will start to learn to love themselves and men learn how to love others.
This will not be like the patriarchal age, because men now know how to love
themselves and Women know how to love
others. So both sexes will also have the problem of
learning how to love themselves and others at the same time.
William Bond
His letter and responses of Rasa Follows:
I think it important for Women to own up to hating men.
EXCELLENT. WE HATE MEN BECAUSE THEY ARE HATEFUL, BECAUSE THEY HAVE DONE SO
MUCH EVIL, AND BECAUSE EVEN NOW THEY CONTINUE DOING WICKED THINGS TO US, TO
ANIMALS, CHILDREN, EACH OTHER AND THE WORLD. THIS IS NOT TO SAY THAT FEMALES
ARE WITHOUT FAULT, BUT THEIR FAULTS ARE MINIMAL COMPARED TO THOSE OF MALES.
Simply because it would be completely unreasonable for men who have hated
Women for thousands of years but when Women start to hate men for all the
abuse they have received, for men to get very moral and say; "you must not
do that!" that would be hypocritical.
INDEED, LET US GET PAST THIS HURDLE. WE ARE TOLD BY EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING
AROUND US THAT WE MUST NOT HATE. I WAS TOLD THIS OVER AND OVER AGAIN BY
RELIGION, BY THE CATHOLIC CHURCH. BUT I HAVE PUT THE DEFINITION OF HATE AT
THE TOP, AND PAY HEED TO IT. I WILL ANSWER IN MY OWN MIND, AND AT THE END OF
THIS, WILL CHANNEL MOTHERGOD WITHIN ME TO GET HER ANSWERS. I AM GLAD YOU
ADMIT THAT MEN HAVE HATED WOMEN FOR THOUSANDS OF YEARS, AS IT IS A FACT, BUT
NOT EVERYONE OWNS UP TO THIS FACT. LOOK AROUND YOU AT WHAT MALES HAVE DONE,
AND THESE ARE ACTS OF HATE. LOOK AROUND YOU AND SEE WHAT FEMALES HAVE DONE,
AND THEY HAVE ENDURED THE HATE OF MEN, AND GIVEN LITTLE BACK.
WHY HAVE THEY AND DO THEY GIVE SO LITTLE HATE BACK? WHY DO THEY ENDURE AND
SUFFER ENDLESSLY AT THE HANDS OF MEN? BECAUSE THEY THINK THEY HAVE TO. FOR
THAT BIT OF SUPPORT, WHICH TO MANY WOMEN IS LITTLE, SAY, $200. A WEEK. YET
THAT SMALL SALARY OR ALLOWANCE CAN KEEP A FEMALE FROM BEING HOMELESS, AND OF
COURSE, IF SHE HAS CHILDREN, FROM THEM STARVING. FOR THIS BIT OF ECONOMIC
HELP, FEMALES ENDURE ALL SORTS OF ABUSE FROM PHYSICAL TO MENTAL AND
EMOTIONAL. ONE OF THE BIGGEST TO ME IS THE BOREDOM AND THE STATE OF
IMPRISONMENT; THE WAY THEY CONTROL YOU FROM HAVING A LIFE; ALL YOUR
INTERESTS AND PURSUITS HAVE TO BE GEARED TOWARD SERVING THEM. FOR EXAMPLE,
WHEN I WAS SEVENTEEN YEARS OLD, I GOT MARRIED TO A MAN TWENTY YEARS OLDER. I
WANTED TO LEARN TO DRIVE AND GO TO COLLEGE. THIS WAS VEHEMENTLY DISCOURAGED.
NEVERTHELESS, I DID FORCE HIM TO GIVE ME THE MONEY FOR DRIVING LESSONS, AND
I DID START GOING TO COLLEGE. WHY DID HE NOT WANT ME TO DRIVE NOR GET MORE
EDUCATION? BECAUSE IT DID NOT SERVE HIS NEEDS, IT SERVED MINE. IN OTHER
WORDS, HE WANTED ME TO JUST STAY HOME, CLEAN THE HOUSE, HAVE A BABY AND TAKE
CARE OF HIM! THIS IS ABUSE!
I have met many Women who clearly do hate men, but will not admit to it.
THEY ALL DO THAT. IT IS BECAUSE WE ARE NOT ALLOWED TO HATE AND WHEN WE SAY
WE HATE, WE ARE CRITICIZED SHARPLY. BUT I HAVE JUST GOTTEN OVER THAT HURDLE
AND I AM GOING TO ADMIT AND BRING TO LIGHT MY TRUE FEELINGS, THAT I DO HATE
MEN AND THEY DESERVE IT. NATURALLY, I QUALIFY THAT I DO NOT HATE ALL MEN,
BUT THE WICKED ONES. THERE ARE NUMEROUS MEN THAT I LOVE, AND THESE MEN ARE
SPIRITUAL SOULS AND THOSE WHO LOVE GOD.
One of them is Nancy, she is always running down men but says she doesn't
want to hate men.
VERY GOOD POINT! WHEN YOU DOWNGRADE OR CRITICIZE SOMEONE CONSTANTLY, IT IS A
TYPE OF HATE. IT IS STRONG DISLIKE. IF YOU PUT A RACE DOWN CONSTANTLY, YOU
HATE THAT RACE. DITTO IF YOU SPEAK AGAINST A RELIGION CONSTANTLY, YOU HATE
THAT RELIGION. IT IS SO SIMPLE, WHY DON'T PEOPLE ADMIT THEIR HATE? BECAUSE
THEY DO NOT WANT TO BE CRITICIZED, SO THEY PRETEND THEY DON'T HATE.
Which is understandable, as hate is not a very nice emotion.
I CAN LIVE WITH IT, NOW THAT I HAVE FACED IT AND COME TO TERMS WITH IT. I
HAVE TAKEN IT OUT OF THE CLOSET AND PUT MY EYES UPON IT. I HAVE DECIDED THAT
I HATE EVIL AND WICKEDNESS, AND I AM FIGHTING AGAINST IT. I HAVE ALWAYS
HATED THE DEVIL AND SIN, IS NOT THE DEVIL AND SIN INSIDE THE MAJORITY OF
MEN? AND SO, THEY HAVE THE SPIRIT OF SATAN INSIDE OF THEM, AND THEY DESERVE
TO BE HATED FOR MAKING THEIR DECISION FOR SATAN AND AGAINST GOD!
But while Women still live in a patriarchal society it is hard for Women to
learn to
love themselves, without hating men.
EXCELLENT POINT. WE MUST OPEN UP THESE DELUSIONS AND DISPEL THEM IN THE
LIGHT OF TRUTH. DELUSION: I HAVE NO HATE. THEN WHY ARE YOU CRITICIZING, SAY,
YOUR HUSBAND, EVERY TIME YOU SPEAK TO YOUR LADY FRIENDS? YOU GO ON FOR HOURS
ABOUT HIS FAULTS, HOW UNBEARABLE HE IS. THEN YOU TURN AROUND AND SAY YOU DO
NOT HATE HIM? ON SOME LEVEL YOU DO HATE HIM, BUT YOU STAY WITH HIM FOR A
REASON - BECAUSE YOU HAVE NOWHERE TO GO, OR WHERE YOU GO WOULD BE A PLACE
LESS CONVENIENT. AFTER ALL, MALE/FEMALE UNIONS ARE MOSTLY ABOUT CONVENIENCE
OF SOME SORT, MANAGING TOGETHER WHERE IT IS EASIER THAT WAY THAN BEING
ALONE. FOR WOMEN, IT IS MOSTLY FINANCIAL, BUT OF COURSE THERE ARE OTHER
REASONS. BUT I WOULD SAY ACROSS THE BOARD, FINANCIAL IS 99%. FOR MEN IT NOT
USUALLY FINANCIAL, IT IS CREATURE COMFORTS LIKE COMPANIONSHIP, SEX, FOOD, A
CLEAN AND HOSPITABLE SHELTER, A NURSE AND A MOTHER. HE GETS A LOT FOR HIS
MONEY. AGAIN, THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS SO PLEASE PEOPLE DO NOT JUMP ME FOR THIS.
Also I think a lot of Women don't want to hate because if they do, they feel
they are no better than men. So they are trying to take a high moral tone of
saying;
"men hate because they are brutes, but we Women are
above all that". But in the end even though Women are resisting hating, it
does come to the surface, and
they end up only pretending not to hate men.
I THINK WE SHOULD TAKE ONE DAY A YEAR AND CALL IT 'I ADMIT I HATE MEN DAY.'
ON THIS DAY WE MAKE A PARADE AND HOLD PLACARDS THIS DESCRIBE WHAT IT IS
ABOUT THEM WE HATE, AND WE MARCH UP AND DOWN LIKE ST. PADDY'S DAY, ONLY WE
CALL IT 'HATE MEN DAY.' WHAT A LARK THAT WOULD BE. I THINK IT WOULD BE
BENEFICIAL FOR OUR PSYCHE.
THE POINT WELL TAKEN IS THAT MEN HAVE HATED US FOR THOUSANDS OF YEARS - I
LIKE THE WAY YOU THINK - AND NOW, WE MUST ADMIT THAT OUR REACTION IS HATE.
LET US PUT ASIDE THIS 'MASOCHISM' OR REPRESSED RAGE, AND BRING IT OUT! THE
FIRST STEP OF HEALING NEGATIVE EMOTIONS IS TO ADMIT ONE HAS THEM, AND THEN,
AIRING THEM OUT, YOU DEAL WITH THEM.
I REMEMBER WHEN MY MOTHER ABUSED ME. SHE BEAT ME ALMOST DAILY, AND I WAS
USED AS A SLAVE IN THE HOUSE FOR THE BENEFIT OF THE FAMILY, BUT GIVEN NO
PRIVILEGES BUT ONLY SCORN AND ABUSE. AS MY MOTHER WAS PUNCHING ME FOR NO
REASON, I FELT HATE, BUT I DID NOT REALIZE IT. I KEPT IT INSIDE AND
REPRESSED AND; HATE, ANGER, RAGE, MAKES A PERSON SICK BOTH MENTALLY AND
EMOTIONALLY, AS WELL AS PHYSICALLY. THEN ONE DAY I HAD A VISION. I SAW
MYSELF IN THE GYM LIFTING WEIGHTS, AND I SAW THAT I TOOK THE ENERGY AWAY
FROM HATING MY MOTHER, INTO THIS STRENUOUS FORM OF EXERCISE. I WANTED TO HIT
HER AND I HATED HER, BUT THIS WAS NOT MORALLY ALLOWED, UNDERSTANDABLY, YOU
CANNOT HATE YOUR OWN MOTHER NOR FEEL RAGE TOWARD HER. THE CHURCH TAUGHT ME
THIS, AND I KNOW IT IS TRUE. YOU TAKE YOUR NEGATIVE FEELINGS AND YOU WORK
THEM OFF IN SOME POSITIVE WAY.
I suppose my response comes from what I learnt
writing, "Gospel Of The Goddess". In this book we are saying; When we move
from the Great Mother as baby souls we have problems is learning how to both
love ourselves and love others at the same time. So Women choose to learn
how to love others first, while men chose to learn how to love themselves.
This would
create the patriarchal age, who would reinforce this
by teaching men to love themselves and hate others.
While women are taught to love others, (mostly men)
and hate themselves.
THIS SELF HATING OF WOMEN IS ALSO A GREAT PRINCIPLE YOU ARE BRINGING OUT. IT
EXPLAINS MUCH. YOU COULD ALSO CALL IT LACK OF SELF ESTEEM, CONFIDENCE, AND
TRUST IN MOTHERGOD'S LOVE FOR US. WE'VE BEEN HANDED OVER TO A FATHERGOD WHO
SUPPOSEDLY LOVES MEN MORE THAN US AND PUT THEM ABOVE US. AS LONG AS WE BUY
INTO THAT WE'RE LOST.
Then as we move to a Matriarchal age, the sexes would change roles and Women
will start to learn to love themselves and men learn how to love others.
This will not be like the patriarchal age, because men now know how to love
themselves and Women know how to love
others. So both sexes will also have the problem of
learning how to love themselves and others at the same time.
ONE OF THE FIRST THINGS THAT WE MUST ALL DO IS FACE UP TO THE FACT THAT
MALES HAVE INDEED ABUSED US FOR THOUSANDS OF YEARS. WE ALL AGREE ON THAT.
AND THEN, WHAT DO WE DO ABOUT IT? TAKE CHARGE, JUST START TAKING OVER THE
WORLD. WHICH IS EXACTLY WHAT WE ARE DOING.
Channeling MotherGod:
Rasa: MotherGod, women have trouble admitting they hate men because hate is
supposed to be evil. Is it ok to hate, and to hate men in particular?
MG: The kind of hate you speak of, my daughter, is not absolute hate, the
kind that destroys others completely. The kind you speak of is in connection
to their actions, their behavior. You do not want to destroy them, body and
soul - which would be total neglect and total hate. You merely want to
prevent them from continued harm to others. In that sense, you must hate
them in order to do your job or Mission.
Rasa: William Bond says that women do hate men, but they cannot admit it. I
agree with him. What do you say?
MG: People who are harmed, abused, neglected, exploited; of course they do
feel hate toward their oppressor. But as William also said, those who have
been abused learn to live with their abusers for lack of having anyplace to
go. As long as women have no way out, they have to make peace with abusers
and put up with them. But as soon as a way is shown to get out, they can
give them the finger and leave.
Rasa: Mother, with women getting far more degrees than men, how long will it
be before they have financial freedom, at least in the civilized countries?
MG: No long. Things are moving rapidly, faster than anyone dreamed of. In
ten, twenty years miracles will happen. You will see it.
Rasa: William also said that men have hated women for thousands of years.
How would you express it?
MG: They have been hateful, yes. When you think of the lengths women had to
go through just to get the vote, and the way males resisted, yes, they have
been totally hateful. When you think of how they have tried to keep women in
the home, barefoot and pregnant, having no human rights, and no money, yes,
they have been hateful. But a new day is coming, hold on!
Rasa: Are male and female forever at cross purposes?
MG: Once upon a time, they weren't. When the Great Mother was revered, they
were on the same page. When men respected women, instead of subverting them,
there was peace. Satan came into the picture and dealt with men, inveigling
himself into their lives and minds. Men have obeyed Satan, thinking only for
materialism and short-term egotistical goals. But don't worry, MotherGod
took care of it. Just trust and all will be well. You must teach women to
trust MotherGod, that She is in charge and all will be made well.
Rasa: Will women take over in time to prevent the planet going under water?
MG: I forbid you to think about that all the time because worry can make you
sick. Do not think about Global Warming so much. Just do what you have to do
and stop worrying. Think about your books and getting the word out on the
Mission, and all will be well.
Rasa: Amen and thank you, MotherGod.
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