Rasa: Mother God, below is a letter written by William Bond, that I would like your response to. (MG will be followed by the words of Mother God)
R ALL MEN A-HOLES? WM BOND ANSWER ( 9/6/09)
I thought I would respond to your message, "Are all men assholes?"
William Bond: Yes, men do treat women badly, but the reason might be because men are playing roles they are not created to play.
MG: HOW WELL WILLIAM HAS SEEN THE TRUTH – HE’S BEEN CHANNELING MOTHER GOD ON THIS ISSUE FOR A LONG TIME.
Wm: It is clear that men do a terrible job in ruling our world and perhaps the reason for this, is that men were not created to rule our world. This job should be done by Women.
Wm: Likewise in relationships I think we should ask ourselves whether marriage or pair-bonding is natural for human beings? After all, if religions have to enforce the state of marriage onto people through laws, punishments and social pressure, then it cannot be natural for humans to behave this way. Because if it was natural for humans to pair bond then no form or law or social custom would be necessary. People would pair-bond naturally.
MG: AGAIN, WELL THOUGHT OUT, WILLIAM, AND ABSOLUTELY TRUE. IF THERE WERE NO CRIMES BEING COMMITTED, WE WOULDN’T NEED LAWS, BUT PEOPLE WANT TO COMMIT CRIMES, AND THEREFORE, IT HAS TO BECOME ILLEGAL AND WE HAVE TO HAVE LAW ENFORCEMENT.
Wm: I do know for a fact that men do fear being 'caught', that is to say, being forced to live with one woman for the rest of their lives. And this is why many young men run away from women when the relationship gets too serious.
MG: THERE ARE TIMES WHEN PEOPLE WANT TO STAY WITH ONE PERSON FOR A WHILE, EVEN YEARS, BUT CERTAINLY NOT FOR ALL TIME. EVEN IF ONE PARTNER STAYS WITH YOU UNTILL THE END OF YOUR LIFE, YOU MIGHT WANT TO HAVE OTHERS FOR SEX, FUN, PARTNERSHIPS OF DIFFERENT SORTS, SUCH AS TENNIS PARTNERS, JOGGING PARTNERS, TRAINING PARTNERS. AND SO, IF YOUR SPOUSE IS RESTRICTIVE IT WOULD PUT A DAMPER ON THE FUN IN YOUR LIFE. THIS GOES EQUALLY FOR BOTH GENDERS; MALES ARE NOT EXCLUSIVE TO THE JOYS OF LIFE.
Wm: If it was accepted more, that couples do not have to live together for the rest of their lives, then perhaps men might be more relaxed about having relationships with women.
MG: IT SEEMS MALES ARE RUNNING THE OTHER WAY FROM EVEN A REMOTE POSSIBILITY OF BEING “CAUGHT.” THEY MUST HAVE LEARNED BY EVOLUTION, THAT HAVING SEX WITH A FEMALE MORE THAN ONCE PUTS THEM IN HARM’S WAY OF BEING “CHAINED”. AT THE VERY LEAST, THE WOMAN MIGHT HARASS THEM FOR SOMETHING, ASK THEM FOR PRIVILEDGES.
Wm: I know Women like marriage because if a relationship breaks up it is mostly the women who are left, "holding the baby".
MG: PRECISELY. WHAT MALES HAVE DONE IS INVENT A NUCLEAR FAMILY, A VERY BAD IDEA. IT’S BAD FOR EVERYONE, THAT’S WHY THEY CANNOT DEVISE OR FORM A SOCIETY, THEIR FORM OF SOCIAL ORDER IS BOUND TO BE FLAWED. THEY ARE NOT THINKING RIGHT, THEY ARE NOT SEEING CLEARLY WHAT A HOME OR FAMILY SHOULD BE, CERTAINLY NOT WHAT A SOCIAL ORDER SHOULD BE. THEIR VIEW IS TO CONTROL FOR THEIR OWN BENEFIT, WHICH IS A SELFISH MOTIVE, AND THEY TEND TO BE MALICIOUS AND VIOLENT WHEN PUT IN POWER.
FEMALES “LIKE MARRIAGE” BECAUSE SOMEONE HAS TO TAKE CARE OF THE CHILDREN, AND IN A NUCLEAR FAMILY, WHEN THE WOMAN IS HEAVY WITH CHILD AND NURTURING THE INFANT, SHE NEEDS HELP. WITHOUT A BACKUP SUPPORT OF WOMEN, WHO IS THERE? THE FATHER, PRESUMABLY, EXCEPT THIS DOES NOT WORK ALL THE TIME, AND IT’S GETTING WORSE. IF IT WERE NOT FOR THE DOLE, (EVEN WITH WHICH WOMEN AND THEIR CHILDREN ARE THE POOREST MEMBERS OF SOCIETY) MANY CHILDREN WOULD STARVE AND DIE.
Wm: But this is only the case in a Patriarchal society. Mothers would off course get a lot more support in a Matriarchal society. If we did live in a Matriarchal society then women would make it the responsibility of the whole community to help look after children.
MG: THE WHOLE COMMUNITY IS WHAT IS NEEDED, MANY VOICES OF EXPERIENCE NEED TO BE HEARD WHEN ENCOUNTERING PROBLEMS. A NEW MOTHER HAS SO MUCH TO LEARN, WITHOUT OTHER WOMEN, TO WHOM DOES SHE GO? IN A PATRIARCHAL SOCIETY, THE ROLE OF THE WOMEN, THE ELDERS ESPECIALLY, HAS BEEN TAKEN OVER BY AGENCIES, PATRIARCHALLY RUN, WITH PATRIARCHAL AGENDAS. THIS IS SLOWLY CHANGING, BUT THE SYSTEMS MALES HAVE INSTITUTED ARE FLAWED – AND THESE ARE THE AGENCIES WOMEN GO TO FOR HELP, THE PATRIARCHAL DOCTORS, THERAPISTS, AGENCIES, ALL ORIGINALLY DEVISED BY MALE CONCERNS, TERRIBLY FLAWED, THE MEDICAL ARM OF WHICH HAS A HORRIBLE LEGACY OF TORTURE OF ANIMALS FOR EXPERIMENTS.
Wm: They would certainly make it far more difficult for a father to run away from their children and give them no support......William Bond (Author, Matriarchal Activist)
Rasa: There we go with William hitting all the right spots, the males are horrendous because the nature of the Patriarchy makes them so. Let’s get into this deeply, it holds revelations.
First of all, males have created a society where individual males are monetarily responsible for their own offspring, while the female takes care of them. This is “the family” religious pundits say feminism is destroying, it’s the ill-conceived nuclear family, it’s the family of the “happily ever after” myth, an idea as fanciful and cute as Santa Claus, but it doesn’t exist.
The nuclear family is rarely happy – a hotbed of abuse of women and children by the Dads (50% of all girls sexually abused, 25% of all boys, not to mention male violence), and poverty when they depart. Let us include now, the common-law alliances, males helping little if any, females relying on a shrinking welfare system. In ghetto neighborhoods, this is the common route. And so now, the “nuclear family” becomes the impoverished mother and her children, with Patriarchal agencies taking the place of Dads. Men “cum and go” as they please, leaving their deposits of sperm, - in poor neighborhoods, living off the women when they seek them for “cribs, cash and cunt.”
As William said, males are living in a society (which they created) that is as flawed for them as for anyone else, they suffer by it. How do they suffer?
Only the alpha males, the ones on top, literally get what they want, as the warlords of the day impregnated hundreds or thousands of wives, the “Genghis Kahn” syndrome, the man with 16,000 wives, a whole city descended from him today. The Old Testament, God promising ‘ole Abraham’ and other Patriarchs that their progeny would be as multiple as grains of sand on the beach. So that was the wish of the old boys, they wanted their sperm multiplied infinitely, and many got what they wanted, the result being severe overpopulation.
The males, being such brilliant planners, now have a system by which to kill off the majority of humanity It first was atomic bombs, then biological warfare (manufactured contagious diseases, injected by vaccines on an unsuspecting public.) Now they want to starve us by manufactured, empty foods, with nutritious foods, vitamins and supplements becoming illegal, declared toxic! (Look up Globus Alimentarius.) Of course, there are the toxins being loosed into the atmosphere, ground water and soil, giving us illness and death – all the work of these most intelligent males managing our planet. No wonder Mother God is taking them out through extinction. (See Bryan Sykes “Adam’s Curse – A Future Without Men.)
Now we come to the immediate question, the bizarre treatment of women by males in a dating system. How does it all connect?
Unless a male is one of the “happy few” on the tippy top with billions at his disposal, he isn’t going to support a lot of children. But he wants to have a lot of sex, with a lot of women, and you can’t blame him. I want to have a lot of sex with a lot of men as well.
So you have males, at varying degrees of increasing poverty in this brilliantly run system, wanting to have fun but unwilling or unable to pay the price when it comes to support. (This includes support of women in relationship situations, as well as support of children they propagate.)
What was sex like in a Matriarchal society?
It seems to me, that sex was a kind of free-for-all in Matriarchy, there were few taboos for adults, certainly for one thing, older women, younger men was a common choice.
I don’t think child abuse was rampant because children were usually in the company of multiple females, as families were extended, women-led ones. I cannot picture small children left alone with men when there are grandmas, great-grandmas, aunts and sisters all over the place. The man could not get to them.
Secondly, the reason there would be little child abuse is because males would get a lot of sex in the normal fashion. Sex is seen in a Mother God society, as a blessing, a way of showing love, and Matriarchy is a sensuous, touchy-feely society, because women know what is good for health. Males who don’t get enough sex (like females) get agitated, nervous, depressed, anxious and angry, and in males, this LEADS TO VIOLENCE. In other words, people, men and women, are not getting the natural sedative and feel-good hormone stimulation they need.
So now what we have here is a Patriarchal society which turns sex into a DIRTY THING, (even the sensual act of breastfeeding is looked upon suspiciously, as if it has to be asexual and non sensuous – cannot get pleasure out of it!) (See “Breastfeeding is Lovemaking Between Mother and Child” book produced by Rasa Von Werder, mostly on the studies of Dr. James W. Prescott and Dr. Dale Glaebach.)
On the other hand, the violence of war, the need for it, is exonerated, and anything goes for war, and the tortures of medical science go along with it. It is the Military/Industrial Society, which Dwight D. Eisenhower warned about, it is aptly named the “Culture of Death,” by Pope John Paul II, in other words, maiming, killing, torture is good, but PLEASURE (see James W. Prescott’s site!) is EVIL – ESPECIALLY SENSUAL PLEASURE THAT GOES WITH BONDING OF MOTHER CHILD AS WELL AS SEX PLEASURE!
Rasa: So now let me channel Mother God, as this is deep and I need help. Mother God, what are we facing here?
MG: WHAT WE ARE FACING ARE FRUSTRATED AND FRIGHTENED MALES. THEY WANT AND NEED LOVE, THEY ARE NOT GETTING ENOUGH OF IT. THEY ARE SEEKING IT BY A “HIT AND RUN” BECAUSE THEY FEAR BEING CAUGHT BY FEMALES TO WEIGHT THEM DOWN INTO MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIPS – AS IN A PATRIARCHAL SOCIETY, MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIPS ARE WHAT BRINGS SOLVENCY TO WOMEN AND THEIR CHILDREN. IF WOMEN ARE IMPREGNATED AND ABANDONED, OBVIOUSLY, IT MAKES LIFE ROUGH – SO IT’S IN THE INTEREST OF WOMEN TO PIN MEN DOWN.
THE BOYS DON’T WANT TO BE PINNED DOWN, THEY JUST WANT TO ENJOY LIFE, HAVE SEX, AND KEEP IT MOVING, MAYBE GET BACK TO THE SAME WOMAN, MAYBE HAVE SOME TIGHT RELATIONSHIPS IF THEY HAVE A STRONG DESIRE, BUT THEY WANT TO BE FREE.
WOMEN WANT TO BE FREE ALSO, BUT YOU CAN’T BE FREE AND HAVE CHILDREN AT THE SAME TIME, IT PINS YOU DOWN. SO WOMEN ARE PUT INTO A BAD DILEMMA, AS THEY ARE NOT SUPPORTED BY THE MATRIARCHAL WOMEN. THEY ARE TRAPPED BY THE SYSTEM.
IN YOUR CASE RASA, YOU ARE NOT GOING TO HAVE CHILDREN, NO OLDER WOMEN IS GOING TO, BUT THEY BASICALLY TREAT YOU THE SAME WAY AS THEY THINK EACH WOMAN WANTS THEM TO BE FAITHFUL – THAT’S THE WAY PATRIARCHY IS RUN. SINCE WOMEN ARE NOT ALLOWED TO SLEEP AROUND, THEY WANT MALES ALSO TO BE LOYAL, IN MOST CASES. SEX IS NOT FREE IN THIS SOCIETY, IT IS REPRESSED, AND PEOPLE ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO HAVE A LOT OF SEX, SEX FOR PLEASURE IS A TABOO, AS RIDICULOUS AS THAT IS.
THEREFORE, RASA, WHEN YOU OR A WOMAN LIKE YOU GOES OUT TO SEEK MALES FOR SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS, THEY SEE YOU AS WANTING TO TIE THEM DOWN, EVEN THOUGH YOU DON’T ESPECIALLY WANT TO TIE THEM DOWN – THEY DON’T KNOW YOUR INTENTIONS. SO THEY FOLLOW THEIR BASIC RULE OF THUMB AND COCK WHICH IS:
“SLEEP WITH HER ONCE, ENJOY IT, GET OUT FAST BEFORE SHE ASKS FOR ANYTHING LIKE FAITHFULNESS.”
Rasa: I do pity the males who are poor and just want to have fun, when they cannot support the children that result from their pleasures and in many cases, it makes them feel flawed. Some men can’t find work, if they had it, they would help, but they can’t even support themselves – they rely on women to help them. Is this not pitiful?
MG: IT CERTAINLY IS. WE NEED A NEW SYSTEM. THE WORK YOU ARE DOING FOR MATRIARCHY WILL HELP, JUST KEEP IT UP. IT IS ALL YOU CAN DO. I REALLY LIKE THE MISSION NOW OF THE OLD WOMAN, YOUNG MAN BEING TOGETHER. IT HOLDS MUCH PROMISE, NO ONE IS DOING IT THE WAY YOU ARE, THEY FAIL TO UNDERSTAND THE IMPLICATIONS. SO GOOD LUCK WITH IT, I AM WITH YOU ALL THE WAY.
Rasa: Mother, I am suffering, though, with loneliness and frustration, as I am without a steady beau and the boy I love is not mine yet, I’ve been waiting a long time. Will I ever get my harem?
MG: YOU WILL GET THE HAREM, YOU WILL GET YOUR BOY. NOTHING IS EASY, THERE IS NO PANACEA OR HEAVEN ON EARTH, BUT YOU CAN COME CLOSE AFTER WORKING HARD AND GAINING YOUR VICTORIES. THERE ARE SOME HIGH POINTS ALONG THE WAY, YOU DO HAVE A SOCIAL LIFE NOW AND GET A HOTTIE OCCASIONALLY, IT ISN’T ALL LONELINESS. AND FURTHERMORE, IF YOU DIDN’T LOVE SO MUCH YOU WOULDN’T GET SO MUCH PLEASURE WHEN YOU FINALLY NAIL HIM – YOU WILL SEE. NOW REST, YOU ARE TIRED. End 9/6/09