Hi Rasa
The reason why patriarchy imposes overpopulation onto the world is to do with competitive wars between patriarchal countries. The greater the population any patriarchal state has, the more men it can use to make weapons and fight in war. This is clearly illustrated in the downfall of Sparta in ancient Greece.
Sparta was a military State where all the young boys were trained to be soldiers from a very early age. The freedom given to it’s women, was in complete contrast to its neighbour Athens. Although Athens was the birthplace of democracy, this democracy was for men only, because they completely subjugated their women.
Although Sparta was a very successful military state and defeated Athens in 404 BC, it seems its military downfall was caused by the freedom it gave to its women. In Athens and other Ancient Greek states women didn’t have control over their own bodies. So they couldn’t refuse sex from their husbands and were not allowed to use any form of birth control and so were forced to have large numbers of children. In Sparta on the other hand women had complete control over their own bodies and could refuse her husband or any other man sex, (it seems the Spartan women even had the freedom to openly have sex with other men). This then means they were free to decide how many children she wanted to have. So like in modern Western countries, women on average didn’t have much more than two children each, and the population size remained stable.
As the result over a many generations as the population of the surrounding Greek states grew, while in Sparta it stayed the same and even declined. Resulting in Sparta being heavily outnumbered when fighting other Greek states. Their military prowess was such that they were still able to defeat armies far larger than themselves but in the end it got too much and they were finally overwhelmed and defeated.
The lesson of Sparta was not lost on other patriarchal countries, and they made laws to prevent women from refusing sex and using sex-control methods. What is not realised is that this was the foundation of the Roman Empire. They imposed very rigid control over women to ensure they kept on breeding. This resulted in vast armies of young men who were able to overwhelm all opposition on the battlefield.
In modern times we still have the same problem. Western counties where women have greater freedom, have stable populations while inhabitants in countries where women are still subjugated keeping on growing at an alarming rate. Fortunately the Western countries are very powerful both economically and militarily and so are not likely to be conquered by a much larger military force in the foreseeable future. Like what happened to the Spartans.
Though this could be the problem for female freedom in the future. In any Feminist or matriarchal country the population will be stable and even decline. While in patriarchal counties the population will keep on growing. This then makes it very difficult for patriarchal and matriarchal countries to live together, because matriarchal countries will be under increasing pressure from immigration or conquest from patriarchal countries. This is because patriarchal counties will need somewhere for its surplus population to go, and they will want live in the less crowed matriarchal countries.
So in the long term the concept of female freedom is a worldwide issue. Because while there are countries where women do not have control over their own bodies, the population of these countries will always increase. Which means in time they will import their culture and beliefs into countries, where women have greater freedom, through immigration or conquest. It is true at present immigrates that go to Europe and North America tend to be converted to a more Western lifestyle after a generation or two. Yet the pressure is still there, and we have the possible danger of the whole world going back to an extreme form of patriarchy through the population explosion in patriarchal countries. In other words what happened to the Spartans could also happen to Western countries, if immigrants from more extreme patriarchal countries overwhelm them.
william
Friday, 9 October 2009
Overpopulation Resulted From the Male Domination System
Guru Rasa explains how the perception of females, by males, AS BREEDING OBJECTS has led to chaos and misery for the human race. Women over fifty years old cannot be perceived as breeding objects, cannot contribute to overpopulation, but the male domination system has deemed them LACKING IN SEX APPEAL and young man, old woman liaisons are TABOO. The old woman is safe from pregnancy, but the young males are not sexing her, they are sexing young women who CAN and DO get pregnant, so many children are being born WHICH GET NEGLECTED.
One of the most awful results of the male domination system is a world where there are so many people that they are pushing out all other species – and yet they are unhappy people.
Why so many people?
Because they wanted to “be fruitful and multiply” which means, in male terms, get that sperm into as many women as possible, as fast as possible, regardless of the consequences, so I can take pride in how many children I have.
Within the Old Testament, you can see the Patriarchal obsession with progeny; it’s not about quality but quantity of life, and that is exactly what we have today: The abnormal frequency of pregnancies begets a world pandemic with ATTACHMENT DISORDER a serious problem, for one thing, as NO ONE CAN BE HAPPY WHILE SUFFERING FROM DEPRIVATION OF MOTHER LOVE.
The desire for quantities of children is about male ego and power. In a Patriarchal society, it is a given that the males are the head of the household and so they control the children (as well as the wives), and in other words, people are a work force, an army, whatever the man decides – control of people gives him the power he craves.
But in this quest for quantity, something runs amuck, as many, including geneticist Dr. Bryan Sykes explain (Adam’s Curse – a Future Without Men), how early weaning is torture for the infant,– each child being deprived of what it needs not only for its immune system but in all ways which include psychology, emotions, mind and body.
From:
http://www.center4familydevelop.com/understandingad.htm
· Attachment disorder:
Understanding Attachment Disorders in Children
At least since Freud we have recognized that the infant-mother relationship is pivotal to the child's emerging personality. Freud (1940) said that for the baby, his mother is "unique, without parallel, laid down unalterably for a whole lifetime, as the first and strongest love object and as the prototype of all later love relations for both sexes." More recently, Greenspan (1997), Schore (1994), and Siegel (1999) have written convincingly about the ways that the early care giving relationship influences the child's developing cognitive ability, shapes her capacity to modulate affect, teaches her to empathize with the feelings of others, and even determines the shape and functioning of her brain. The attachment and care giving systems are at the heart of that crucial first relationship. John Bowlby (1969/1982; 1973; 1980) described the attachment and care giving systems in biological and evolutionary terms stating that, across species, the attachment system was as important to species survival as were feeding and reproduction. At the heart of the attachment and care giving systems is the protection of a younger, weaker member of the species by a stronger one. The infant's repertoire of attachment behaviors are matched by a reciprocal set of care giving behaviors in the mother. As the mother responds to the infant's bids for protection and security, a strong affectional bond develops between the two that forms the template for the baby's subsequent relationships. Attachment behaviors change as the child develops. A young baby who is tired, frightened, hungry, or lonely will show signaling and proximity seeking behaviors designed to bring his caregiver to him and keep her close. The baby may cry, reach out, or cling to his mother. Later when he is more mobile, he may actively approach her, follow her, or climb into her lap. A toddler may use his mother as a secure base, leaving her briefly to explore his world, and then reestablishing a sense of security by making contact with her by catching her eye, calling out to her and hearing her voice, or physically returning to her (Lieberman, 1993). By the time a child is four years old, she is typically less distressed by lack of proximity from her mother, particularly if they have negotiated or agreed upon a shared plan regarding the separation and reunion before the mother leaves (Marvin & Greenberg, 1982). These older children have less need for physical proximity with their mothers, and are better able to maintain a sense of felt security by relying upon their mental image of their mothers and upon the comforting presence of friends and other adults.
Bowlby (1969/1982) referred to attachment bonds as a specific type of a larger class of bonds that he and Ainsworth (1989) described as "affectional" bonds. Ainsworth (1989) established five criteria for affectional bonds between individuals, and a sixth criteria for attachment bonds. First, an affectional bond is persistent, not transitory. Second, it involves a particular person who is not interchangeable with anyone else. Third, it involves a relationship that is emotionally significant. Fourth, an individual wishes to maintain proximity or contact with the person with whom he or she has an affectional tie. Fifth, he feels sadness or distress at involuntary separation from the person. A true attachment bond, however, has an additional criteria: the person seeks security and comfort in the relationship. (Snipped)
Even though some studies indicate that insecure attachment styles can lead to emotional and behavioral difficulties, it is important to keep in mind that insecure attachment styles are not mental disorders. They are strategies for protection seeking that occur in the normative population. Lieberman and Zeanah (1995) propose three separate categories of attachment disorders: (1) disorders of nonattachment, (2) disordered attachments, and (3) disrupted attachment disorder: bereavement/ grief reaction. (Snipped)
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See also Dr. James W. Prescott on this same subject, (his studies strongly represented in my book, “Breastfeeding is Love Making Between Mother and Child” – Rasa Von Werder)
From:
http://www.economicexpert.com/a/James:W:Prescott.html
James W. Prescott
is a developmental psychologist, whose research focused on the origins of violence, particularly as it relates to a lack of mother-child bonding.
Prescott was a health scientist administrator at the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD), one of the Institutes of the US National Institutes of Health (NIH) from 1966 to 1980. He created and directed the Developmental Behavioral Biology Program at the NICHD where he initiated NICHD-supported research programs to study the relationship between mother-child bonding and the development of social abilities in adult life. Inspired by Harry Harlow's famous experiments on rhesus monkeys, which established a link between neurotic behavior and isolation from a care-giving mother, Prescott further proposed that a key component to development comes from the somesthetic processes (body touch) and vestibular-cerebellar processes (body movement) induced by mother-child interactions, and that deprivation of this stimulation causes brain abnormalities. By analogy to the neurotic behavior in monkeys, he suggested that these developmental abnormalities are a major cause of adult violence amongst humans.
Prescott followed up on this study of behavioral effects through anthropological surveys of primitive cultures including the effects of sensory deprivation of human sexual pleasure and affection during adolescence, which he wrote up in the paper Body Pleasure and the Origins of Violence. In this paper, he presents evidence suggesting that societies open to touch and sexuality suffer from less violence than intolerant societies. He has derived from this a theory of somatosensory-affectional deprivation (S-SAD).
Prescott also served as assistant head of the Psychology Branch of the Office of Naval Research (1963 to 1966) and as president of the Maryland Psychological Association (1970 to 1971).
· http://www.violence.de/
has the essentials of Prescott's work
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Other reasons
that people are miserable under male leadership are that
* the planet is now polluted and filled with toxins as a result of male wars, - improper disposal of nuclear waste and other poisons; proliferation of poisons related to agriculture and killing of other life forms - which are now being ingested by all life on earth
· Humans and animals are going hungry while much of the food prepared for the affluent few is thrown away as garbage
One of the most awful results of the male domination system is a world where there are so many people that they are pushing out all other species – and yet they are unhappy people.
Why so many people?
Because they wanted to “be fruitful and multiply” which means, in male terms, get that sperm into as many women as possible, as fast as possible, regardless of the consequences, so I can take pride in how many children I have.
Within the Old Testament, you can see the Patriarchal obsession with progeny; it’s not about quality but quantity of life, and that is exactly what we have today: The abnormal frequency of pregnancies begets a world pandemic with ATTACHMENT DISORDER a serious problem, for one thing, as NO ONE CAN BE HAPPY WHILE SUFFERING FROM DEPRIVATION OF MOTHER LOVE.
The desire for quantities of children is about male ego and power. In a Patriarchal society, it is a given that the males are the head of the household and so they control the children (as well as the wives), and in other words, people are a work force, an army, whatever the man decides – control of people gives him the power he craves.
But in this quest for quantity, something runs amuck, as many, including geneticist Dr. Bryan Sykes explain (Adam’s Curse – a Future Without Men), how early weaning is torture for the infant,– each child being deprived of what it needs not only for its immune system but in all ways which include psychology, emotions, mind and body.
From:
http://www.center4familydevelop.com/understandingad.htm
· Attachment disorder:
Understanding Attachment Disorders in Children
At least since Freud we have recognized that the infant-mother relationship is pivotal to the child's emerging personality. Freud (1940) said that for the baby, his mother is "unique, without parallel, laid down unalterably for a whole lifetime, as the first and strongest love object and as the prototype of all later love relations for both sexes." More recently, Greenspan (1997), Schore (1994), and Siegel (1999) have written convincingly about the ways that the early care giving relationship influences the child's developing cognitive ability, shapes her capacity to modulate affect, teaches her to empathize with the feelings of others, and even determines the shape and functioning of her brain. The attachment and care giving systems are at the heart of that crucial first relationship. John Bowlby (1969/1982; 1973; 1980) described the attachment and care giving systems in biological and evolutionary terms stating that, across species, the attachment system was as important to species survival as were feeding and reproduction. At the heart of the attachment and care giving systems is the protection of a younger, weaker member of the species by a stronger one. The infant's repertoire of attachment behaviors are matched by a reciprocal set of care giving behaviors in the mother. As the mother responds to the infant's bids for protection and security, a strong affectional bond develops between the two that forms the template for the baby's subsequent relationships. Attachment behaviors change as the child develops. A young baby who is tired, frightened, hungry, or lonely will show signaling and proximity seeking behaviors designed to bring his caregiver to him and keep her close. The baby may cry, reach out, or cling to his mother. Later when he is more mobile, he may actively approach her, follow her, or climb into her lap. A toddler may use his mother as a secure base, leaving her briefly to explore his world, and then reestablishing a sense of security by making contact with her by catching her eye, calling out to her and hearing her voice, or physically returning to her (Lieberman, 1993). By the time a child is four years old, she is typically less distressed by lack of proximity from her mother, particularly if they have negotiated or agreed upon a shared plan regarding the separation and reunion before the mother leaves (Marvin & Greenberg, 1982). These older children have less need for physical proximity with their mothers, and are better able to maintain a sense of felt security by relying upon their mental image of their mothers and upon the comforting presence of friends and other adults.
Bowlby (1969/1982) referred to attachment bonds as a specific type of a larger class of bonds that he and Ainsworth (1989) described as "affectional" bonds. Ainsworth (1989) established five criteria for affectional bonds between individuals, and a sixth criteria for attachment bonds. First, an affectional bond is persistent, not transitory. Second, it involves a particular person who is not interchangeable with anyone else. Third, it involves a relationship that is emotionally significant. Fourth, an individual wishes to maintain proximity or contact with the person with whom he or she has an affectional tie. Fifth, he feels sadness or distress at involuntary separation from the person. A true attachment bond, however, has an additional criteria: the person seeks security and comfort in the relationship. (Snipped)
Even though some studies indicate that insecure attachment styles can lead to emotional and behavioral difficulties, it is important to keep in mind that insecure attachment styles are not mental disorders. They are strategies for protection seeking that occur in the normative population. Lieberman and Zeanah (1995) propose three separate categories of attachment disorders: (1) disorders of nonattachment, (2) disordered attachments, and (3) disrupted attachment disorder: bereavement/ grief reaction. (Snipped)
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See also Dr. James W. Prescott on this same subject, (his studies strongly represented in my book, “Breastfeeding is Love Making Between Mother and Child” – Rasa Von Werder)
From:
http://www.economicexpert.com/a/James:W:Prescott.html
James W. Prescott
is a developmental psychologist, whose research focused on the origins of violence, particularly as it relates to a lack of mother-child bonding.
Prescott was a health scientist administrator at the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD), one of the Institutes of the US National Institutes of Health (NIH) from 1966 to 1980. He created and directed the Developmental Behavioral Biology Program at the NICHD where he initiated NICHD-supported research programs to study the relationship between mother-child bonding and the development of social abilities in adult life. Inspired by Harry Harlow's famous experiments on rhesus monkeys, which established a link between neurotic behavior and isolation from a care-giving mother, Prescott further proposed that a key component to development comes from the somesthetic processes (body touch) and vestibular-cerebellar processes (body movement) induced by mother-child interactions, and that deprivation of this stimulation causes brain abnormalities. By analogy to the neurotic behavior in monkeys, he suggested that these developmental abnormalities are a major cause of adult violence amongst humans.
Prescott followed up on this study of behavioral effects through anthropological surveys of primitive cultures including the effects of sensory deprivation of human sexual pleasure and affection during adolescence, which he wrote up in the paper Body Pleasure and the Origins of Violence. In this paper, he presents evidence suggesting that societies open to touch and sexuality suffer from less violence than intolerant societies. He has derived from this a theory of somatosensory-affectional deprivation (S-SAD).
Prescott also served as assistant head of the Psychology Branch of the Office of Naval Research (1963 to 1966) and as president of the Maryland Psychological Association (1970 to 1971).
· http://www.violence.de/
has the essentials of Prescott's work
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Other reasons
that people are miserable under male leadership are that
* the planet is now polluted and filled with toxins as a result of male wars, - improper disposal of nuclear waste and other poisons; proliferation of poisons related to agriculture and killing of other life forms - which are now being ingested by all life on earth
· Humans and animals are going hungry while much of the food prepared for the affluent few is thrown away as garbage
WILLIAM BOND-RASA WORKING 4 MATRIARCHY
Hi Rasa
That is what i like so much about you, you don't give up and just keep going.
The only way matriarchy is going to get anywhere, is for strong female leaders to show women the way forward. You are by far the strongest female leader i know, who is advocating Matriarchy and Goddess worship.
That is why i support you, you are the only matriarchal female leader whom i have confidence in, to get things done.
william
Rasa’s 12the book published!
(2) Rasa on radio www.iriefm.net
One hour on Andrea William’s show “Sexwise” 9 08 09 (Jamaican radio, global on internet. Do not ask me how to log on & hear it, I have not yet figured it out) Great interview! See Andrea Williams on Facebook.
RASA’S 12TH BOOK PUBLISHED Guru Rasa and Her DEVOTEES
http://www.lulu.com/content/paperback-book/guru-rasa-and-her-devotees/7636647
What happens when a person seeks spiritual Enlightenment from another human being who might have it? Read this and you will see mysteries unfold, as disciples explain how they found Guru Rasa, and what happened when they did. It all unfolds through dreams, visions and feelings, as the Shakti Kundalini or Holy Spirit touches them by grace and changes them, pulls them higher through the Chakras. Amazing stories of spiritual awakening and quickening abound here; disciples become ecstatic with bliss, joy and love. Guru Rasa first appeared as a spiritual power via the internet in 2004, and by 2006, thousands of people believed in her – why? Because when they prayed to her (often building altars) things happened – and here are their accounts, with many more to come in future. Illustrated with beautiful photos of the Guru as well as her followers.
One hour on Andrea William’s show “Sexwise” 9 08 09 (Jamaican radio, global on internet. Do not ask me how to log on & hear it, I have not yet figured it out) Great interview! See Andrea Williams on Facebook.
RASA’S 12TH BOOK PUBLISHED Guru Rasa and Her DEVOTEES
http://www.lulu.com/content/paperback-book/guru-rasa-and-her-devotees/7636647
What happens when a person seeks spiritual Enlightenment from another human being who might have it? Read this and you will see mysteries unfold, as disciples explain how they found Guru Rasa, and what happened when they did. It all unfolds through dreams, visions and feelings, as the Shakti Kundalini or Holy Spirit touches them by grace and changes them, pulls them higher through the Chakras. Amazing stories of spiritual awakening and quickening abound here; disciples become ecstatic with bliss, joy and love. Guru Rasa first appeared as a spiritual power via the internet in 2004, and by 2006, thousands of people believed in her – why? Because when they prayed to her (often building altars) things happened – and here are their accounts, with many more to come in future. Illustrated with beautiful photos of the Guru as well as her followers.
Why males are bizarre to women in dating/relationship situations - Rasa channels mother god
Rasa: Mother God, below is a letter written by William Bond, that I would like your response to. (MG will be followed by the words of Mother God)
R ALL MEN A-HOLES? WM BOND ANSWER ( 9/6/09)
Hi Rasa
I thought I would respond to your message, "Are all men assholes?"
William Bond: Yes, men do treat women badly, but the reason might be because men are playing roles they are not created to play.
MG: HOW WELL WILLIAM HAS SEEN THE TRUTH – HE’S BEEN CHANNELING MOTHER GOD ON THIS ISSUE FOR A LONG TIME.
Wm: It is clear that men do a terrible job in ruling our world and perhaps the reason for this, is that men were not created to rule our world. This job should be done by Women.
MG: ABSOLUTELY
Wm: Likewise in relationships I think we should ask ourselves whether marriage or pair-bonding is natural for human beings? After all, if religions have to enforce the state of marriage onto people through laws, punishments and social pressure, then it cannot be natural for humans to behave this way. Because if it was natural for humans to pair bond then no form or law or social custom would be necessary. People would pair-bond naturally.
MG: AGAIN, WELL THOUGHT OUT, WILLIAM, AND ABSOLUTELY TRUE. IF THERE WERE NO CRIMES BEING COMMITTED, WE WOULDN’T NEED LAWS, BUT PEOPLE WANT TO COMMIT CRIMES, AND THEREFORE, IT HAS TO BECOME ILLEGAL AND WE HAVE TO HAVE LAW ENFORCEMENT.
Wm: I do know for a fact that men do fear being 'caught', that is to say, being forced to live with one woman for the rest of their lives. And this is why many young men run away from women when the relationship gets too serious.
MG: THERE ARE TIMES WHEN PEOPLE WANT TO STAY WITH ONE PERSON FOR A WHILE, EVEN YEARS, BUT CERTAINLY NOT FOR ALL TIME. EVEN IF ONE PARTNER STAYS WITH YOU UNTILL THE END OF YOUR LIFE, YOU MIGHT WANT TO HAVE OTHERS FOR SEX, FUN, PARTNERSHIPS OF DIFFERENT SORTS, SUCH AS TENNIS PARTNERS, JOGGING PARTNERS, TRAINING PARTNERS. AND SO, IF YOUR SPOUSE IS RESTRICTIVE IT WOULD PUT A DAMPER ON THE FUN IN YOUR LIFE. THIS GOES EQUALLY FOR BOTH GENDERS; MALES ARE NOT EXCLUSIVE TO THE JOYS OF LIFE.
Wm: If it was accepted more, that couples do not have to live together for the rest of their lives, then perhaps men might be more relaxed about having relationships with women.
MG: IT SEEMS MALES ARE RUNNING THE OTHER WAY FROM EVEN A REMOTE POSSIBILITY OF BEING “CAUGHT.” THEY MUST HAVE LEARNED BY EVOLUTION, THAT HAVING SEX WITH A FEMALE MORE THAN ONCE PUTS THEM IN HARM’S WAY OF BEING “CHAINED”. AT THE VERY LEAST, THE WOMAN MIGHT HARASS THEM FOR SOMETHING, ASK THEM FOR PRIVILEDGES.
Wm: I know Women like marriage because if a relationship breaks up it is mostly the women who are left, "holding the baby".
MG: PRECISELY. WHAT MALES HAVE DONE IS INVENT A NUCLEAR FAMILY, A VERY BAD IDEA. IT’S BAD FOR EVERYONE, THAT’S WHY THEY CANNOT DEVISE OR FORM A SOCIETY, THEIR FORM OF SOCIAL ORDER IS BOUND TO BE FLAWED. THEY ARE NOT THINKING RIGHT, THEY ARE NOT SEEING CLEARLY WHAT A HOME OR FAMILY SHOULD BE, CERTAINLY NOT WHAT A SOCIAL ORDER SHOULD BE. THEIR VIEW IS TO CONTROL FOR THEIR OWN BENEFIT, WHICH IS A SELFISH MOTIVE, AND THEY TEND TO BE MALICIOUS AND VIOLENT WHEN PUT IN POWER.
FEMALES “LIKE MARRIAGE” BECAUSE SOMEONE HAS TO TAKE CARE OF THE CHILDREN, AND IN A NUCLEAR FAMILY, WHEN THE WOMAN IS HEAVY WITH CHILD AND NURTURING THE INFANT, SHE NEEDS HELP. WITHOUT A BACKUP SUPPORT OF WOMEN, WHO IS THERE? THE FATHER, PRESUMABLY, EXCEPT THIS DOES NOT WORK ALL THE TIME, AND IT’S GETTING WORSE. IF IT WERE NOT FOR THE DOLE, (EVEN WITH WHICH WOMEN AND THEIR CHILDREN ARE THE POOREST MEMBERS OF SOCIETY) MANY CHILDREN WOULD STARVE AND DIE.
Wm: But this is only the case in a Patriarchal society. Mothers would off course get a lot more support in a Matriarchal society. If we did live in a Matriarchal society then women would make it the responsibility of the whole community to help look after children.
MG: THE WHOLE COMMUNITY IS WHAT IS NEEDED, MANY VOICES OF EXPERIENCE NEED TO BE HEARD WHEN ENCOUNTERING PROBLEMS. A NEW MOTHER HAS SO MUCH TO LEARN, WITHOUT OTHER WOMEN, TO WHOM DOES SHE GO? IN A PATRIARCHAL SOCIETY, THE ROLE OF THE WOMEN, THE ELDERS ESPECIALLY, HAS BEEN TAKEN OVER BY AGENCIES, PATRIARCHALLY RUN, WITH PATRIARCHAL AGENDAS. THIS IS SLOWLY CHANGING, BUT THE SYSTEMS MALES HAVE INSTITUTED ARE FLAWED – AND THESE ARE THE AGENCIES WOMEN GO TO FOR HELP, THE PATRIARCHAL DOCTORS, THERAPISTS, AGENCIES, ALL ORIGINALLY DEVISED BY MALE CONCERNS, TERRIBLY FLAWED, THE MEDICAL ARM OF WHICH HAS A HORRIBLE LEGACY OF TORTURE OF ANIMALS FOR EXPERIMENTS.
Wm: They would certainly make it far more difficult for a father to run away from their children and give them no support......William Bond (Author, Matriarchal Activist)
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Rasa: There we go with William hitting all the right spots, the males are horrendous because the nature of the Patriarchy makes them so. Let’s get into this deeply, it holds revelations.
First of all, males have created a society where individual males are monetarily responsible for their own offspring, while the female takes care of them. This is “the family” religious pundits say feminism is destroying, it’s the ill-conceived nuclear family, it’s the family of the “happily ever after” myth, an idea as fanciful and cute as Santa Claus, but it doesn’t exist.
The nuclear family is rarely happy – a hotbed of abuse of women and children by the Dads (50% of all girls sexually abused, 25% of all boys, not to mention male violence), and poverty when they depart. Let us include now, the common-law alliances, males helping little if any, females relying on a shrinking welfare system. In ghetto neighborhoods, this is the common route. And so now, the “nuclear family” becomes the impoverished mother and her children, with Patriarchal agencies taking the place of Dads. Men “cum and go” as they please, leaving their deposits of sperm, - in poor neighborhoods, living off the women when they seek them for “cribs, cash and cunt.”
As William said, males are living in a society (which they created) that is as flawed for them as for anyone else, they suffer by it. How do they suffer?
Only the alpha males, the ones on top, literally get what they want, as the warlords of the day impregnated hundreds or thousands of wives, the “Genghis Kahn” syndrome, the man with 16,000 wives, a whole city descended from him today. The Old Testament, God promising ‘ole Abraham’ and other Patriarchs that their progeny would be as multiple as grains of sand on the beach. So that was the wish of the old boys, they wanted their sperm multiplied infinitely, and many got what they wanted, the result being severe overpopulation.
The males, being such brilliant planners, now have a system by which to kill off the majority of humanity It first was atomic bombs, then biological warfare (manufactured contagious diseases, injected by vaccines on an unsuspecting public.) Now they want to starve us by manufactured, empty foods, with nutritious foods, vitamins and supplements becoming illegal, declared toxic! (Look up Globus Alimentarius.) Of course, there are the toxins being loosed into the atmosphere, ground water and soil, giving us illness and death – all the work of these most intelligent males managing our planet. No wonder Mother God is taking them out through extinction. (See Bryan Sykes “Adam’s Curse – A Future Without Men.)
Now we come to the immediate question, the bizarre treatment of women by males in a dating system. How does it all connect?
Unless a male is one of the “happy few” on the tippy top with billions at his disposal, he isn’t going to support a lot of children. But he wants to have a lot of sex, with a lot of women, and you can’t blame him. I want to have a lot of sex with a lot of men as well.
So you have males, at varying degrees of increasing poverty in this brilliantly run system, wanting to have fun but unwilling or unable to pay the price when it comes to support. (This includes support of women in relationship situations, as well as support of children they propagate.)
What was sex like in a Matriarchal society?
It seems to me, that sex was a kind of free-for-all in Matriarchy, there were few taboos for adults, certainly for one thing, older women, younger men was a common choice.
I don’t think child abuse was rampant because children were usually in the company of multiple females, as families were extended, women-led ones. I cannot picture small children left alone with men when there are grandmas, great-grandmas, aunts and sisters all over the place. The man could not get to them.
Secondly, the reason there would be little child abuse is because males would get a lot of sex in the normal fashion. Sex is seen in a Mother God society, as a blessing, a way of showing love, and Matriarchy is a sensuous, touchy-feely society, because women know what is good for health. Males who don’t get enough sex (like females) get agitated, nervous, depressed, anxious and angry, and in males, this LEADS TO VIOLENCE. In other words, people, men and women, are not getting the natural sedative and feel-good hormone stimulation they need.
So now what we have here is a Patriarchal society which turns sex into a DIRTY THING, (even the sensual act of breastfeeding is looked upon suspiciously, as if it has to be asexual and non sensuous – cannot get pleasure out of it!) (See “Breastfeeding is Lovemaking Between Mother and Child” book produced by Rasa Von Werder, mostly on the studies of Dr. James W. Prescott and Dr. Dale Glaebach.)
On the other hand, the violence of war, the need for it, is exonerated, and anything goes for war, and the tortures of medical science go along with it. It is the Military/Industrial Society, which Dwight D. Eisenhower warned about, it is aptly named the “Culture of Death,” by Pope John Paul II, in other words, maiming, killing, torture is good, but PLEASURE (see James W. Prescott’s site!) is EVIL – ESPECIALLY SENSUAL PLEASURE THAT GOES WITH BONDING OF MOTHER CHILD AS WELL AS SEX PLEASURE!
Rasa: So now let me channel Mother God, as this is deep and I need help. Mother God, what are we facing here?
MG: WHAT WE ARE FACING ARE FRUSTRATED AND FRIGHTENED MALES. THEY WANT AND NEED LOVE, THEY ARE NOT GETTING ENOUGH OF IT. THEY ARE SEEKING IT BY A “HIT AND RUN” BECAUSE THEY FEAR BEING CAUGHT BY FEMALES TO WEIGHT THEM DOWN INTO MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIPS – AS IN A PATRIARCHAL SOCIETY, MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIPS ARE WHAT BRINGS SOLVENCY TO WOMEN AND THEIR CHILDREN. IF WOMEN ARE IMPREGNATED AND ABANDONED, OBVIOUSLY, IT MAKES LIFE ROUGH – SO IT’S IN THE INTEREST OF WOMEN TO PIN MEN DOWN.
THE BOYS DON’T WANT TO BE PINNED DOWN, THEY JUST WANT TO ENJOY LIFE, HAVE SEX, AND KEEP IT MOVING, MAYBE GET BACK TO THE SAME WOMAN, MAYBE HAVE SOME TIGHT RELATIONSHIPS IF THEY HAVE A STRONG DESIRE, BUT THEY WANT TO BE FREE.
WOMEN WANT TO BE FREE ALSO, BUT YOU CAN’T BE FREE AND HAVE CHILDREN AT THE SAME TIME, IT PINS YOU DOWN. SO WOMEN ARE PUT INTO A BAD DILEMMA, AS THEY ARE NOT SUPPORTED BY THE MATRIARCHAL WOMEN. THEY ARE TRAPPED BY THE SYSTEM.
IN YOUR CASE RASA, YOU ARE NOT GOING TO HAVE CHILDREN, NO OLDER WOMEN IS GOING TO, BUT THEY BASICALLY TREAT YOU THE SAME WAY AS THEY THINK EACH WOMAN WANTS THEM TO BE FAITHFUL – THAT’S THE WAY PATRIARCHY IS RUN. SINCE WOMEN ARE NOT ALLOWED TO SLEEP AROUND, THEY WANT MALES ALSO TO BE LOYAL, IN MOST CASES. SEX IS NOT FREE IN THIS SOCIETY, IT IS REPRESSED, AND PEOPLE ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO HAVE A LOT OF SEX, SEX FOR PLEASURE IS A TABOO, AS RIDICULOUS AS THAT IS.
THEREFORE, RASA, WHEN YOU OR A WOMAN LIKE YOU GOES OUT TO SEEK MALES FOR SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS, THEY SEE YOU AS WANTING TO TIE THEM DOWN, EVEN THOUGH YOU DON’T ESPECIALLY WANT TO TIE THEM DOWN – THEY DON’T KNOW YOUR INTENTIONS. SO THEY FOLLOW THEIR BASIC RULE OF THUMB AND COCK WHICH IS:
“SLEEP WITH HER ONCE, ENJOY IT, GET OUT FAST BEFORE SHE ASKS FOR ANYTHING LIKE FAITHFULNESS.”
Rasa: I do pity the males who are poor and just want to have fun, when they cannot support the children that result from their pleasures and in many cases, it makes them feel flawed. Some men can’t find work, if they had it, they would help, but they can’t even support themselves – they rely on women to help them. Is this not pitiful?
MG: IT CERTAINLY IS. WE NEED A NEW SYSTEM. THE WORK YOU ARE DOING FOR MATRIARCHY WILL HELP, JUST KEEP IT UP. IT IS ALL YOU CAN DO. I REALLY LIKE THE MISSION NOW OF THE OLD WOMAN, YOUNG MAN BEING TOGETHER. IT HOLDS MUCH PROMISE, NO ONE IS DOING IT THE WAY YOU ARE, THEY FAIL TO UNDERSTAND THE IMPLICATIONS. SO GOOD LUCK WITH IT, I AM WITH YOU ALL THE WAY.
Rasa: Mother, I am suffering, though, with loneliness and frustration, as I am without a steady beau and the boy I love is not mine yet, I’ve been waiting a long time. Will I ever get my harem?
MG: YOU WILL GET THE HAREM, YOU WILL GET YOUR BOY. NOTHING IS EASY, THERE IS NO PANACEA OR HEAVEN ON EARTH, BUT YOU CAN COME CLOSE AFTER WORKING HARD AND GAINING YOUR VICTORIES. THERE ARE SOME HIGH POINTS ALONG THE WAY, YOU DO HAVE A SOCIAL LIFE NOW AND GET A HOTTIE OCCASIONALLY, IT ISN’T ALL LONELINESS. AND FURTHERMORE, IF YOU DIDN’T LOVE SO MUCH YOU WOULDN’T GET SO MUCH PLEASURE WHEN YOU FINALLY NAIL HIM – YOU WILL SEE. NOW REST, YOU ARE TIRED. End 9/6/09
R ALL MEN A-HOLES? WM BOND ANSWER ( 9/6/09)
Hi Rasa
I thought I would respond to your message, "Are all men assholes?"
William Bond: Yes, men do treat women badly, but the reason might be because men are playing roles they are not created to play.
MG: HOW WELL WILLIAM HAS SEEN THE TRUTH – HE’S BEEN CHANNELING MOTHER GOD ON THIS ISSUE FOR A LONG TIME.
Wm: It is clear that men do a terrible job in ruling our world and perhaps the reason for this, is that men were not created to rule our world. This job should be done by Women.
MG: ABSOLUTELY
Wm: Likewise in relationships I think we should ask ourselves whether marriage or pair-bonding is natural for human beings? After all, if religions have to enforce the state of marriage onto people through laws, punishments and social pressure, then it cannot be natural for humans to behave this way. Because if it was natural for humans to pair bond then no form or law or social custom would be necessary. People would pair-bond naturally.
MG: AGAIN, WELL THOUGHT OUT, WILLIAM, AND ABSOLUTELY TRUE. IF THERE WERE NO CRIMES BEING COMMITTED, WE WOULDN’T NEED LAWS, BUT PEOPLE WANT TO COMMIT CRIMES, AND THEREFORE, IT HAS TO BECOME ILLEGAL AND WE HAVE TO HAVE LAW ENFORCEMENT.
Wm: I do know for a fact that men do fear being 'caught', that is to say, being forced to live with one woman for the rest of their lives. And this is why many young men run away from women when the relationship gets too serious.
MG: THERE ARE TIMES WHEN PEOPLE WANT TO STAY WITH ONE PERSON FOR A WHILE, EVEN YEARS, BUT CERTAINLY NOT FOR ALL TIME. EVEN IF ONE PARTNER STAYS WITH YOU UNTILL THE END OF YOUR LIFE, YOU MIGHT WANT TO HAVE OTHERS FOR SEX, FUN, PARTNERSHIPS OF DIFFERENT SORTS, SUCH AS TENNIS PARTNERS, JOGGING PARTNERS, TRAINING PARTNERS. AND SO, IF YOUR SPOUSE IS RESTRICTIVE IT WOULD PUT A DAMPER ON THE FUN IN YOUR LIFE. THIS GOES EQUALLY FOR BOTH GENDERS; MALES ARE NOT EXCLUSIVE TO THE JOYS OF LIFE.
Wm: If it was accepted more, that couples do not have to live together for the rest of their lives, then perhaps men might be more relaxed about having relationships with women.
MG: IT SEEMS MALES ARE RUNNING THE OTHER WAY FROM EVEN A REMOTE POSSIBILITY OF BEING “CAUGHT.” THEY MUST HAVE LEARNED BY EVOLUTION, THAT HAVING SEX WITH A FEMALE MORE THAN ONCE PUTS THEM IN HARM’S WAY OF BEING “CHAINED”. AT THE VERY LEAST, THE WOMAN MIGHT HARASS THEM FOR SOMETHING, ASK THEM FOR PRIVILEDGES.
Wm: I know Women like marriage because if a relationship breaks up it is mostly the women who are left, "holding the baby".
MG: PRECISELY. WHAT MALES HAVE DONE IS INVENT A NUCLEAR FAMILY, A VERY BAD IDEA. IT’S BAD FOR EVERYONE, THAT’S WHY THEY CANNOT DEVISE OR FORM A SOCIETY, THEIR FORM OF SOCIAL ORDER IS BOUND TO BE FLAWED. THEY ARE NOT THINKING RIGHT, THEY ARE NOT SEEING CLEARLY WHAT A HOME OR FAMILY SHOULD BE, CERTAINLY NOT WHAT A SOCIAL ORDER SHOULD BE. THEIR VIEW IS TO CONTROL FOR THEIR OWN BENEFIT, WHICH IS A SELFISH MOTIVE, AND THEY TEND TO BE MALICIOUS AND VIOLENT WHEN PUT IN POWER.
FEMALES “LIKE MARRIAGE” BECAUSE SOMEONE HAS TO TAKE CARE OF THE CHILDREN, AND IN A NUCLEAR FAMILY, WHEN THE WOMAN IS HEAVY WITH CHILD AND NURTURING THE INFANT, SHE NEEDS HELP. WITHOUT A BACKUP SUPPORT OF WOMEN, WHO IS THERE? THE FATHER, PRESUMABLY, EXCEPT THIS DOES NOT WORK ALL THE TIME, AND IT’S GETTING WORSE. IF IT WERE NOT FOR THE DOLE, (EVEN WITH WHICH WOMEN AND THEIR CHILDREN ARE THE POOREST MEMBERS OF SOCIETY) MANY CHILDREN WOULD STARVE AND DIE.
Wm: But this is only the case in a Patriarchal society. Mothers would off course get a lot more support in a Matriarchal society. If we did live in a Matriarchal society then women would make it the responsibility of the whole community to help look after children.
MG: THE WHOLE COMMUNITY IS WHAT IS NEEDED, MANY VOICES OF EXPERIENCE NEED TO BE HEARD WHEN ENCOUNTERING PROBLEMS. A NEW MOTHER HAS SO MUCH TO LEARN, WITHOUT OTHER WOMEN, TO WHOM DOES SHE GO? IN A PATRIARCHAL SOCIETY, THE ROLE OF THE WOMEN, THE ELDERS ESPECIALLY, HAS BEEN TAKEN OVER BY AGENCIES, PATRIARCHALLY RUN, WITH PATRIARCHAL AGENDAS. THIS IS SLOWLY CHANGING, BUT THE SYSTEMS MALES HAVE INSTITUTED ARE FLAWED – AND THESE ARE THE AGENCIES WOMEN GO TO FOR HELP, THE PATRIARCHAL DOCTORS, THERAPISTS, AGENCIES, ALL ORIGINALLY DEVISED BY MALE CONCERNS, TERRIBLY FLAWED, THE MEDICAL ARM OF WHICH HAS A HORRIBLE LEGACY OF TORTURE OF ANIMALS FOR EXPERIMENTS.
Wm: They would certainly make it far more difficult for a father to run away from their children and give them no support......William Bond (Author, Matriarchal Activist)
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Rasa: There we go with William hitting all the right spots, the males are horrendous because the nature of the Patriarchy makes them so. Let’s get into this deeply, it holds revelations.
First of all, males have created a society where individual males are monetarily responsible for their own offspring, while the female takes care of them. This is “the family” religious pundits say feminism is destroying, it’s the ill-conceived nuclear family, it’s the family of the “happily ever after” myth, an idea as fanciful and cute as Santa Claus, but it doesn’t exist.
The nuclear family is rarely happy – a hotbed of abuse of women and children by the Dads (50% of all girls sexually abused, 25% of all boys, not to mention male violence), and poverty when they depart. Let us include now, the common-law alliances, males helping little if any, females relying on a shrinking welfare system. In ghetto neighborhoods, this is the common route. And so now, the “nuclear family” becomes the impoverished mother and her children, with Patriarchal agencies taking the place of Dads. Men “cum and go” as they please, leaving their deposits of sperm, - in poor neighborhoods, living off the women when they seek them for “cribs, cash and cunt.”
As William said, males are living in a society (which they created) that is as flawed for them as for anyone else, they suffer by it. How do they suffer?
Only the alpha males, the ones on top, literally get what they want, as the warlords of the day impregnated hundreds or thousands of wives, the “Genghis Kahn” syndrome, the man with 16,000 wives, a whole city descended from him today. The Old Testament, God promising ‘ole Abraham’ and other Patriarchs that their progeny would be as multiple as grains of sand on the beach. So that was the wish of the old boys, they wanted their sperm multiplied infinitely, and many got what they wanted, the result being severe overpopulation.
The males, being such brilliant planners, now have a system by which to kill off the majority of humanity It first was atomic bombs, then biological warfare (manufactured contagious diseases, injected by vaccines on an unsuspecting public.) Now they want to starve us by manufactured, empty foods, with nutritious foods, vitamins and supplements becoming illegal, declared toxic! (Look up Globus Alimentarius.) Of course, there are the toxins being loosed into the atmosphere, ground water and soil, giving us illness and death – all the work of these most intelligent males managing our planet. No wonder Mother God is taking them out through extinction. (See Bryan Sykes “Adam’s Curse – A Future Without Men.)
Now we come to the immediate question, the bizarre treatment of women by males in a dating system. How does it all connect?
Unless a male is one of the “happy few” on the tippy top with billions at his disposal, he isn’t going to support a lot of children. But he wants to have a lot of sex, with a lot of women, and you can’t blame him. I want to have a lot of sex with a lot of men as well.
So you have males, at varying degrees of increasing poverty in this brilliantly run system, wanting to have fun but unwilling or unable to pay the price when it comes to support. (This includes support of women in relationship situations, as well as support of children they propagate.)
What was sex like in a Matriarchal society?
It seems to me, that sex was a kind of free-for-all in Matriarchy, there were few taboos for adults, certainly for one thing, older women, younger men was a common choice.
I don’t think child abuse was rampant because children were usually in the company of multiple females, as families were extended, women-led ones. I cannot picture small children left alone with men when there are grandmas, great-grandmas, aunts and sisters all over the place. The man could not get to them.
Secondly, the reason there would be little child abuse is because males would get a lot of sex in the normal fashion. Sex is seen in a Mother God society, as a blessing, a way of showing love, and Matriarchy is a sensuous, touchy-feely society, because women know what is good for health. Males who don’t get enough sex (like females) get agitated, nervous, depressed, anxious and angry, and in males, this LEADS TO VIOLENCE. In other words, people, men and women, are not getting the natural sedative and feel-good hormone stimulation they need.
So now what we have here is a Patriarchal society which turns sex into a DIRTY THING, (even the sensual act of breastfeeding is looked upon suspiciously, as if it has to be asexual and non sensuous – cannot get pleasure out of it!) (See “Breastfeeding is Lovemaking Between Mother and Child” book produced by Rasa Von Werder, mostly on the studies of Dr. James W. Prescott and Dr. Dale Glaebach.)
On the other hand, the violence of war, the need for it, is exonerated, and anything goes for war, and the tortures of medical science go along with it. It is the Military/Industrial Society, which Dwight D. Eisenhower warned about, it is aptly named the “Culture of Death,” by Pope John Paul II, in other words, maiming, killing, torture is good, but PLEASURE (see James W. Prescott’s site!) is EVIL – ESPECIALLY SENSUAL PLEASURE THAT GOES WITH BONDING OF MOTHER CHILD AS WELL AS SEX PLEASURE!
Rasa: So now let me channel Mother God, as this is deep and I need help. Mother God, what are we facing here?
MG: WHAT WE ARE FACING ARE FRUSTRATED AND FRIGHTENED MALES. THEY WANT AND NEED LOVE, THEY ARE NOT GETTING ENOUGH OF IT. THEY ARE SEEKING IT BY A “HIT AND RUN” BECAUSE THEY FEAR BEING CAUGHT BY FEMALES TO WEIGHT THEM DOWN INTO MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIPS – AS IN A PATRIARCHAL SOCIETY, MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIPS ARE WHAT BRINGS SOLVENCY TO WOMEN AND THEIR CHILDREN. IF WOMEN ARE IMPREGNATED AND ABANDONED, OBVIOUSLY, IT MAKES LIFE ROUGH – SO IT’S IN THE INTEREST OF WOMEN TO PIN MEN DOWN.
THE BOYS DON’T WANT TO BE PINNED DOWN, THEY JUST WANT TO ENJOY LIFE, HAVE SEX, AND KEEP IT MOVING, MAYBE GET BACK TO THE SAME WOMAN, MAYBE HAVE SOME TIGHT RELATIONSHIPS IF THEY HAVE A STRONG DESIRE, BUT THEY WANT TO BE FREE.
WOMEN WANT TO BE FREE ALSO, BUT YOU CAN’T BE FREE AND HAVE CHILDREN AT THE SAME TIME, IT PINS YOU DOWN. SO WOMEN ARE PUT INTO A BAD DILEMMA, AS THEY ARE NOT SUPPORTED BY THE MATRIARCHAL WOMEN. THEY ARE TRAPPED BY THE SYSTEM.
IN YOUR CASE RASA, YOU ARE NOT GOING TO HAVE CHILDREN, NO OLDER WOMEN IS GOING TO, BUT THEY BASICALLY TREAT YOU THE SAME WAY AS THEY THINK EACH WOMAN WANTS THEM TO BE FAITHFUL – THAT’S THE WAY PATRIARCHY IS RUN. SINCE WOMEN ARE NOT ALLOWED TO SLEEP AROUND, THEY WANT MALES ALSO TO BE LOYAL, IN MOST CASES. SEX IS NOT FREE IN THIS SOCIETY, IT IS REPRESSED, AND PEOPLE ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO HAVE A LOT OF SEX, SEX FOR PLEASURE IS A TABOO, AS RIDICULOUS AS THAT IS.
THEREFORE, RASA, WHEN YOU OR A WOMAN LIKE YOU GOES OUT TO SEEK MALES FOR SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS, THEY SEE YOU AS WANTING TO TIE THEM DOWN, EVEN THOUGH YOU DON’T ESPECIALLY WANT TO TIE THEM DOWN – THEY DON’T KNOW YOUR INTENTIONS. SO THEY FOLLOW THEIR BASIC RULE OF THUMB AND COCK WHICH IS:
“SLEEP WITH HER ONCE, ENJOY IT, GET OUT FAST BEFORE SHE ASKS FOR ANYTHING LIKE FAITHFULNESS.”
Rasa: I do pity the males who are poor and just want to have fun, when they cannot support the children that result from their pleasures and in many cases, it makes them feel flawed. Some men can’t find work, if they had it, they would help, but they can’t even support themselves – they rely on women to help them. Is this not pitiful?
MG: IT CERTAINLY IS. WE NEED A NEW SYSTEM. THE WORK YOU ARE DOING FOR MATRIARCHY WILL HELP, JUST KEEP IT UP. IT IS ALL YOU CAN DO. I REALLY LIKE THE MISSION NOW OF THE OLD WOMAN, YOUNG MAN BEING TOGETHER. IT HOLDS MUCH PROMISE, NO ONE IS DOING IT THE WAY YOU ARE, THEY FAIL TO UNDERSTAND THE IMPLICATIONS. SO GOOD LUCK WITH IT, I AM WITH YOU ALL THE WAY.
Rasa: Mother, I am suffering, though, with loneliness and frustration, as I am without a steady beau and the boy I love is not mine yet, I’ve been waiting a long time. Will I ever get my harem?
MG: YOU WILL GET THE HAREM, YOU WILL GET YOUR BOY. NOTHING IS EASY, THERE IS NO PANACEA OR HEAVEN ON EARTH, BUT YOU CAN COME CLOSE AFTER WORKING HARD AND GAINING YOUR VICTORIES. THERE ARE SOME HIGH POINTS ALONG THE WAY, YOU DO HAVE A SOCIAL LIFE NOW AND GET A HOTTIE OCCASIONALLY, IT ISN’T ALL LONELINESS. AND FURTHERMORE, IF YOU DIDN’T LOVE SO MUCH YOU WOULDN’T GET SO MUCH PLEASURE WHEN YOU FINALLY NAIL HIM – YOU WILL SEE. NOW REST, YOU ARE TIRED. End 9/6/09
R ALL MEN A-HOLES? WM BOND ANSWER ( 9/6/09)
Hi Rasa
I thought i would respond to your message, "Are all men assholes?"
Yes, men do treat women badly, but the reason might be because men are playing roles they are not created to play. It is clear that men do a terrible job in ruling our world and perhaps the reason for this, is that men were not created to rule our world. This job should be done by Women.
Likewise in relationships I think we should ask ourselves whether marriage or pair-bonding is natural for human beings? After all, if religions have to enforce the state of marriage onto people through laws, punishments and social pressure, then it cannot be natural for humans to behave this way. Because if it was natural for humans to pair bond then no form or law or social custom would be necessary. People would pair-bond naturally.
I do know for a fact that men do fear being 'caught', that is to say, being forced to live with one women for the rest of their lives. And this is why many young men run away from women when the relationship gets too serious.
If it was accepted more, that couple do not have to live together for the rest of their lives, then perhaps men might be more relaxed about having relationships with women.
I know Women like marriage because if a relationship breaks up it is mostly the woman who are left, "holding the baby". But this is only the case in a patriarchal society. Mothers would off course get a lot more support in a Matriarchal society. If we did live in a matriarchal society then Women would make it the responsibility of the whole community to help look after children. They would certainly make it far more difficult for a father to run away from their children and give them no support.
Are all men assholes or just most of them? Rasa channels Mother God
9/5/09
Rasa: Mother God, I have been experiencing mostly bad treatment from men, and not being sure if it was personal, just me, I have interviewed many females, who are age 16 to 30, downtown, and the consensus from them, black and white, is that males are “assholes” and “pigs.” Those are the words most frequently used, there was not a dissent among them.
Now I know there is an argument to be made that women aren’t so hot, either, and males say women “play games.” And so, I ask for your take on this – what seems to be a universal agreement among women, and even many men, that men are pigs and assholes.
MOTHER GOD (MG): HAHAHA, MEN ARE ASSHOLES. WHAT YOU SAY IS TRUE, WHAT EVERYONE SAYS IS TRUE, THEY ARE ASSHOLES AND PIGS, FROM THE POINT OF VIEW YOU ARE COMING FROM – WHICH IS REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE, DAY TO DAY.
Rasa: OK. Now I know you are for real, if there was any doubt, Mother God, as you are not beating around the bush, just saying the truth, no quibbling. Here is what the college girls say, and here is what I say, of their behavior which makes them malicious:
· When they have sex with a woman, their “aftercare” is from Hell. I don’t mean the way most of them roll over and play dead after orgasm – that is bad enough, I mean the next day and week. They give you numbers that don’t work, or someone else’s number, or else, they hang up when you call or never call back, or else, when they see you on the street or at school, they act like they don’t know you.
It seems like always and forever, they want to “hit and run,” they want to do you, then pretend it never happened, so they can be footloose and fancy free for the next female, as they always think they can get someone new or better.
I have seen this at the clubs, and elsewhere. They are always searching, always prowling, you are never enough, they want to hit you one time, and it’s goodbye – I don’t know how any woman ever holds on to one of them. Why don’t they want relationships?
MG: THEY DO. BUT WHEN THEY INSTALL YOU INTO THE HOUSE OR MOVE IN WITH YOU, THEY, MOST OF THEM, WANT TO CONTINUE TO ROAM AROUND, FIND MORE WOMEN, YOU BEING THE MOTHER THERE WHILE THEY PLAY.
Rasa: Again, we think alike. But I am having the same objective, in that I want to gather a harem of hotties, spiritual husbands who I am in relationship with, and I don’t want monogamy, but variety. So will that make me a pig also?
MG: NO, THIS IS DIFFERENT. YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN RUDE OR CRUEL TO ANY MALE YOU HAD SEX WITH – THINK ABOUT IT. IT WAS YOU WHO REACHED OUT TO THEM, AGAIN AND AGAIN, IN PAIN AND HUMILIATION, CONTINUALLY PURSUED THE ONES WHO APPEALED TO YOU – (EXCEPT FOR THE BAD LOVERS OR LOSERS WHO YOU IGNORED) – YOU STRAINED YOURSELF TO CREATE RELATIONSHIPS, IT WAS THEY WHO REJECTED YOU.
Rasa: Yes, it’s true. Again, people will say it’s an individual thing, they do this to me because they don’t like me, but I specifically asked many dozens of females throughout the last year, specific questions, and the girls told me they give them fake numbers, hang up on them, or ignore them after sex, so it is universal.
The question then, is what do we do about it?
MG: UNLESS A MALE FALLS IN LOVE WITH YOU, AND EVEN THEN THERE IS NO GUARANTEE OF FAITHFULNESS, ALTHOUGH HE MIGHT BE FAITHFUL IN SOME CASES – YOU HAVE TO PLAY THEM THE WAY THEY PLAY YOU, WITH NO SHAME OR COMPUNCTION OR PAIN.
IT IS WHAT IT IS, THE CLICHE GOES, JUST KEEP IT MOVING, AND LOOK FOR NEW MEN, AS THEY ARE LOOKING FOR NEW WOMEN.
Rasa: Is that the best revenge or strategy, then, play them like they play us? Be like them?
MG: YOU HAVE NO CHOICE. WHAT IS THE ALTERNATIVE? IN THE PAST, THE PROBLEM WAS THE LABELING, THE SLUT OR WHORE WORDS. BUT NOW, THAT WILL CHANGE – IT HAS CHANGED SOMEWHAT – AND YOU WILL HELP IT ALONG, BY BEHAVING IN A WAY OF SEXUAL FREEDOM, BY ADVERTISING WHAT YOU’RE DOING. YOU’RE DOING THAT ON FACEBOOK NOW, AND IN YOUR SEX REPORTS, EVENTUALLY, IT WILL HAVE AN IMPACT.
Rasa: Yes, it has been daunting. It started with Carlos way at the beginning. I called him every day for a week on his cousin’s phone (he did not have one, said he was always with his cousin, they living together) and never got a call back.
What alternative is there except to keep having one night stands, when they don’t want relationships, or else, relationships go bad?
MG: EVEN WHEN YOU GET A STEADY RELATIONSHIP, NONE OF THESE BOYS WILL FILL YOU UP COMPLETELY EMOTIONALLY, MENTALLY, BECAUSE THEY DON’T HAVE THE MOXIE OR STRENGTH TO DO SO, SO AFTER YOU SET ONE UP, AND CHAIN HIM DOWN TIGHT, YOU WILL HAVE TO EXPAND AND GET THE NEXT ONE.
Rasa: That seems tricky at this point, being that I don’t even have one – Marc has gone the way of the dinosaurs because of his greed, Kahmee was an addict and abuser, - do you have any suggestions how I can succeed?
MG: JUST KEEP DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING, WITH NO COMPUNCTION, LIKE I SAID. I AM INSIDE YOU, GUIDING YOU ALONG, TELLING YOU WHEN TO STAY IN ONE CLUB, WHEN TO GO TO THE OTHER, WHEN TO HIT THE STREET, WHERE TO GO FOR FOOD, ETC. I WILL GUIDE YOU TO THE RIGHT PLACE AT THE RIGHT TIME, TO GET WHAT YOU WANT, TO KEEP YOU OUT OF TROUBLE.
THE LAST FEW DAYS YOU SAW NO ONE YOU REALLY WANTED, SO IT WAS JUST SOCIALIZING. WHEN YOU SEE SOMEONE REALLY HOT YOU PULL OUT ALL THE STOPS AND YOU DON’T TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER, AND THAT IS THE WINNING TICKET. THE GUYS YOU MET IN THE LAST FEW DAYS, YOU GAVE THEM WAYS OUT, SO YOU DID NOT SNAG THEM, AS YOU DID NOT REALLY CARE, SO YOU HAD A SMALL DOOR OPENED FOR THEM, WHICH THEY USED TO GET OUT OF IT – NOT BECAUSE YOU’RE NOT HOT, BUT BECAUSE THEY ARE ETERNALLY STUPID, AND ALWAYS THINK IN THE NEXT FIVE MINUTES THEY WILL FIND A BETTER OR YOUNGER GIRL, AND IN THE END, EVERY GUY YOU HIT ON TENTATIVELY, WENT HOME ALONE.
Rasa: So you agree that not only are they assholes and pigs, but they are eternally stupid? Could you elaborate on that, on how they are stupid, when it comes to dating and relationships?
MG: THEY ARE FOREVER LIVING IN LA LA LAND, THAT THEY WILL SCORE WITH HOT, BEAUTIFUL WOMEN, WHEN THEY CAN’T EVEN GET THE AVERAGE ONE. THEY KEEP FANTASIZING AND PRETENDING THEY CAN GET THIS ONE OR THAT, IN THE WAY THAT SOME WOMEN PRETEND AND FANTASIZE THAT MEN LOVE THEM. YOU HAVE SEEN IT, HEARD IT, WHEN FEMALES DELUDE THEMSELVES, DELUSION IS A TYPE OF STUPIDITY.
IF YOU WANT TO GET ANYWHERE, YOU HAVE TO FACE FACTS. SEE IT JUST HOW IT IS, SEE THEM AS THEY ARE. MEN SAY WOMEN PLAY GAMES. WHAT THEY REFER TO IS THAT WOMEN ARE NICE, WOMEN PLAY THEM FOR DRINKS OR FAVORS, BUT DON’T GIVE THEM PUSSY. THIS IS TRUE IN MANY CASES, BUT TOO BAD. WHAT MEN DO IS FAR WORSE.
Rasa: It seems to me, Mother God, they are no different than us, and at base, they really want love more so than just sex, but to hear them talk, all males want or need is sex. What’s with that?
MG: THEY IMAGINE ALL THEY WANT OR NEED IS SEX, BUT IF THE LOVE WAS COMPLETELY MISSING, THEY WOULD BE VERY HURT. IF YOU, THE WOMAN, WOULD JUST USE THEIR BODY THE WAY THEY ATTEMPT TO JUST USE YOUR BODY, AND KEEP IT MOVING FOREVER, AND NEVER GIVE THEM ANY CARING, LOYALTY, FAVORS, AFTERCARE, OR ANY SORT OF RESPECT AND KINDNESS, THESE MEN WOULD BE ONE MISERABLE BUNCH – THEY WOULD BE BLOWING THEIR BRAINS OUT – WHICH IS WHAT MEN DO WITHOUT LOVE, IN THE END, THEY JUST KILL THEMSELVES ONE WAY OR ANOTHER.
Rasa: And also, when men don’t get love or sex, they become mentally ill, dangerous and violent. Most serial killers do so out of revenge for not having had love, and many loners, those who cannot maintain relationships, are the ones who end up killers. Without love, affection, relationships, they become dangerous.
MG: GOOD POINT. FOR ALL THEY SAY ABOUT NOT NEEDING RELATIONSHIPS, THEY NEED THEM MUCH MORE THAN DO WOMEN. End 9/5/09
I thought i would respond to your message, "Are all men assholes?"
Yes, men do treat women badly, but the reason might be because men are playing roles they are not created to play. It is clear that men do a terrible job in ruling our world and perhaps the reason for this, is that men were not created to rule our world. This job should be done by Women.
Likewise in relationships I think we should ask ourselves whether marriage or pair-bonding is natural for human beings? After all, if religions have to enforce the state of marriage onto people through laws, punishments and social pressure, then it cannot be natural for humans to behave this way. Because if it was natural for humans to pair bond then no form or law or social custom would be necessary. People would pair-bond naturally.
I do know for a fact that men do fear being 'caught', that is to say, being forced to live with one women for the rest of their lives. And this is why many young men run away from women when the relationship gets too serious.
If it was accepted more, that couple do not have to live together for the rest of their lives, then perhaps men might be more relaxed about having relationships with women.
I know Women like marriage because if a relationship breaks up it is mostly the woman who are left, "holding the baby". But this is only the case in a patriarchal society. Mothers would off course get a lot more support in a Matriarchal society. If we did live in a matriarchal society then Women would make it the responsibility of the whole community to help look after children. They would certainly make it far more difficult for a father to run away from their children and give them no support.
Are all men assholes or just most of them? Rasa channels Mother God
9/5/09
Rasa: Mother God, I have been experiencing mostly bad treatment from men, and not being sure if it was personal, just me, I have interviewed many females, who are age 16 to 30, downtown, and the consensus from them, black and white, is that males are “assholes” and “pigs.” Those are the words most frequently used, there was not a dissent among them.
Now I know there is an argument to be made that women aren’t so hot, either, and males say women “play games.” And so, I ask for your take on this – what seems to be a universal agreement among women, and even many men, that men are pigs and assholes.
MOTHER GOD (MG): HAHAHA, MEN ARE ASSHOLES. WHAT YOU SAY IS TRUE, WHAT EVERYONE SAYS IS TRUE, THEY ARE ASSHOLES AND PIGS, FROM THE POINT OF VIEW YOU ARE COMING FROM – WHICH IS REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE, DAY TO DAY.
Rasa: OK. Now I know you are for real, if there was any doubt, Mother God, as you are not beating around the bush, just saying the truth, no quibbling. Here is what the college girls say, and here is what I say, of their behavior which makes them malicious:
· When they have sex with a woman, their “aftercare” is from Hell. I don’t mean the way most of them roll over and play dead after orgasm – that is bad enough, I mean the next day and week. They give you numbers that don’t work, or someone else’s number, or else, they hang up when you call or never call back, or else, when they see you on the street or at school, they act like they don’t know you.
It seems like always and forever, they want to “hit and run,” they want to do you, then pretend it never happened, so they can be footloose and fancy free for the next female, as they always think they can get someone new or better.
I have seen this at the clubs, and elsewhere. They are always searching, always prowling, you are never enough, they want to hit you one time, and it’s goodbye – I don’t know how any woman ever holds on to one of them. Why don’t they want relationships?
MG: THEY DO. BUT WHEN THEY INSTALL YOU INTO THE HOUSE OR MOVE IN WITH YOU, THEY, MOST OF THEM, WANT TO CONTINUE TO ROAM AROUND, FIND MORE WOMEN, YOU BEING THE MOTHER THERE WHILE THEY PLAY.
Rasa: Again, we think alike. But I am having the same objective, in that I want to gather a harem of hotties, spiritual husbands who I am in relationship with, and I don’t want monogamy, but variety. So will that make me a pig also?
MG: NO, THIS IS DIFFERENT. YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN RUDE OR CRUEL TO ANY MALE YOU HAD SEX WITH – THINK ABOUT IT. IT WAS YOU WHO REACHED OUT TO THEM, AGAIN AND AGAIN, IN PAIN AND HUMILIATION, CONTINUALLY PURSUED THE ONES WHO APPEALED TO YOU – (EXCEPT FOR THE BAD LOVERS OR LOSERS WHO YOU IGNORED) – YOU STRAINED YOURSELF TO CREATE RELATIONSHIPS, IT WAS THEY WHO REJECTED YOU.
Rasa: Yes, it’s true. Again, people will say it’s an individual thing, they do this to me because they don’t like me, but I specifically asked many dozens of females throughout the last year, specific questions, and the girls told me they give them fake numbers, hang up on them, or ignore them after sex, so it is universal.
The question then, is what do we do about it?
MG: UNLESS A MALE FALLS IN LOVE WITH YOU, AND EVEN THEN THERE IS NO GUARANTEE OF FAITHFULNESS, ALTHOUGH HE MIGHT BE FAITHFUL IN SOME CASES – YOU HAVE TO PLAY THEM THE WAY THEY PLAY YOU, WITH NO SHAME OR COMPUNCTION OR PAIN.
IT IS WHAT IT IS, THE CLICHE GOES, JUST KEEP IT MOVING, AND LOOK FOR NEW MEN, AS THEY ARE LOOKING FOR NEW WOMEN.
Rasa: Is that the best revenge or strategy, then, play them like they play us? Be like them?
MG: YOU HAVE NO CHOICE. WHAT IS THE ALTERNATIVE? IN THE PAST, THE PROBLEM WAS THE LABELING, THE SLUT OR WHORE WORDS. BUT NOW, THAT WILL CHANGE – IT HAS CHANGED SOMEWHAT – AND YOU WILL HELP IT ALONG, BY BEHAVING IN A WAY OF SEXUAL FREEDOM, BY ADVERTISING WHAT YOU’RE DOING. YOU’RE DOING THAT ON FACEBOOK NOW, AND IN YOUR SEX REPORTS, EVENTUALLY, IT WILL HAVE AN IMPACT.
Rasa: Yes, it has been daunting. It started with Carlos way at the beginning. I called him every day for a week on his cousin’s phone (he did not have one, said he was always with his cousin, they living together) and never got a call back.
What alternative is there except to keep having one night stands, when they don’t want relationships, or else, relationships go bad?
MG: EVEN WHEN YOU GET A STEADY RELATIONSHIP, NONE OF THESE BOYS WILL FILL YOU UP COMPLETELY EMOTIONALLY, MENTALLY, BECAUSE THEY DON’T HAVE THE MOXIE OR STRENGTH TO DO SO, SO AFTER YOU SET ONE UP, AND CHAIN HIM DOWN TIGHT, YOU WILL HAVE TO EXPAND AND GET THE NEXT ONE.
Rasa: That seems tricky at this point, being that I don’t even have one – Marc has gone the way of the dinosaurs because of his greed, Kahmee was an addict and abuser, - do you have any suggestions how I can succeed?
MG: JUST KEEP DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING, WITH NO COMPUNCTION, LIKE I SAID. I AM INSIDE YOU, GUIDING YOU ALONG, TELLING YOU WHEN TO STAY IN ONE CLUB, WHEN TO GO TO THE OTHER, WHEN TO HIT THE STREET, WHERE TO GO FOR FOOD, ETC. I WILL GUIDE YOU TO THE RIGHT PLACE AT THE RIGHT TIME, TO GET WHAT YOU WANT, TO KEEP YOU OUT OF TROUBLE.
THE LAST FEW DAYS YOU SAW NO ONE YOU REALLY WANTED, SO IT WAS JUST SOCIALIZING. WHEN YOU SEE SOMEONE REALLY HOT YOU PULL OUT ALL THE STOPS AND YOU DON’T TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER, AND THAT IS THE WINNING TICKET. THE GUYS YOU MET IN THE LAST FEW DAYS, YOU GAVE THEM WAYS OUT, SO YOU DID NOT SNAG THEM, AS YOU DID NOT REALLY CARE, SO YOU HAD A SMALL DOOR OPENED FOR THEM, WHICH THEY USED TO GET OUT OF IT – NOT BECAUSE YOU’RE NOT HOT, BUT BECAUSE THEY ARE ETERNALLY STUPID, AND ALWAYS THINK IN THE NEXT FIVE MINUTES THEY WILL FIND A BETTER OR YOUNGER GIRL, AND IN THE END, EVERY GUY YOU HIT ON TENTATIVELY, WENT HOME ALONE.
Rasa: So you agree that not only are they assholes and pigs, but they are eternally stupid? Could you elaborate on that, on how they are stupid, when it comes to dating and relationships?
MG: THEY ARE FOREVER LIVING IN LA LA LAND, THAT THEY WILL SCORE WITH HOT, BEAUTIFUL WOMEN, WHEN THEY CAN’T EVEN GET THE AVERAGE ONE. THEY KEEP FANTASIZING AND PRETENDING THEY CAN GET THIS ONE OR THAT, IN THE WAY THAT SOME WOMEN PRETEND AND FANTASIZE THAT MEN LOVE THEM. YOU HAVE SEEN IT, HEARD IT, WHEN FEMALES DELUDE THEMSELVES, DELUSION IS A TYPE OF STUPIDITY.
IF YOU WANT TO GET ANYWHERE, YOU HAVE TO FACE FACTS. SEE IT JUST HOW IT IS, SEE THEM AS THEY ARE. MEN SAY WOMEN PLAY GAMES. WHAT THEY REFER TO IS THAT WOMEN ARE NICE, WOMEN PLAY THEM FOR DRINKS OR FAVORS, BUT DON’T GIVE THEM PUSSY. THIS IS TRUE IN MANY CASES, BUT TOO BAD. WHAT MEN DO IS FAR WORSE.
Rasa: It seems to me, Mother God, they are no different than us, and at base, they really want love more so than just sex, but to hear them talk, all males want or need is sex. What’s with that?
MG: THEY IMAGINE ALL THEY WANT OR NEED IS SEX, BUT IF THE LOVE WAS COMPLETELY MISSING, THEY WOULD BE VERY HURT. IF YOU, THE WOMAN, WOULD JUST USE THEIR BODY THE WAY THEY ATTEMPT TO JUST USE YOUR BODY, AND KEEP IT MOVING FOREVER, AND NEVER GIVE THEM ANY CARING, LOYALTY, FAVORS, AFTERCARE, OR ANY SORT OF RESPECT AND KINDNESS, THESE MEN WOULD BE ONE MISERABLE BUNCH – THEY WOULD BE BLOWING THEIR BRAINS OUT – WHICH IS WHAT MEN DO WITHOUT LOVE, IN THE END, THEY JUST KILL THEMSELVES ONE WAY OR ANOTHER.
Rasa: And also, when men don’t get love or sex, they become mentally ill, dangerous and violent. Most serial killers do so out of revenge for not having had love, and many loners, those who cannot maintain relationships, are the ones who end up killers. Without love, affection, relationships, they become dangerous.
MG: GOOD POINT. FOR ALL THEY SAY ABOUT NOT NEEDING RELATIONSHIPS, THEY NEED THEM MUCH MORE THAN DO WOMEN. End 9/5/09
Are all men assholes or just most of them? Rasa channels Mother God
9/5/09
Rasa: Mother God, I have been experiencing mostly bad treatment from men, and not being sure if it was personal, just me, I have interviewed many females, who are age 16 to 30, downtown, and the consensus from them, black and white, is that males are “assholes” and “pigs.” Those are the words most frequently used, there was not a dissent among them.
Now I know there is an argument to be made that women aren’t so hot, either, and males say women “play games.” And so, I ask for your take on this – what seems to be a universal agreement among women, and even many men, that men are pigs and assholes.
MOTHER GOD (MG): HAHAHA, MEN ARE ASSHOLES. WHAT YOU SAY IS TRUE, WHAT EVERYONE SAYS IS TRUE, THEY ARE ASSHOLES AND PIGS, FROM THE POINT OF VIEW YOU ARE COMING FROM – WHICH IS REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE, DAY TO DAY.
Rasa: OK. Now I know you are for real, if there was any doubt, Mother God, as you are not beating around the bush, just saying the truth, no quibbling. Here is what the college girls say, and here is what I say, of their behavior which makes them malicious:
· When they have sex with a woman, their “aftercare” is from Hell. I don’t mean the way most of them roll over and play dead after orgasm – that is bad enough, I mean the next day and week. They give you numbers that don’t work, or someone else’s number, or else, they hang up when you call or never call back, or else, when they see you on the street or at school, they act like they don’t know you.
It seems like always and forever, they want to “hit and run,” they want to do you, then pretend it never happened, so they can be footloose and fancy free for the next female, as they always think they can get someone new or better.
I have seen this at the clubs, and elsewhere. They are always searching, always prowling, you are never enough, they want to hit you one time, and it’s goodbye – I don’t know how any woman ever holds on to one of them. Why don’t they want relationships?
MG: THEY DO. BUT WHEN THEY INSTALL YOU INTO THE HOUSE OR MOVE IN WITH YOU, THEY, MOST OF THEM, WANT TO CONTINUE TO ROAM AROUND, FIND MORE WOMEN, YOU BEING THE MOTHER THERE WHILE THEY PLAY.
Rasa: Again, we think alike. But I am having the same objective, in that I want to gather a harem of hotties, spiritual husbands who I am in relationship with, and I don’t want monogamy, but variety. So will that make me a pig also?
MG: NO, THIS IS DIFFERENT. YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN RUDE OR CRUEL TO ANY MALE YOU HAD SEX WITH – THINK ABOUT IT. IT WAS YOU WHO REACHED OUT TO THEM, AGAIN AND AGAIN, IN PAIN AND HUMILIATION, CONTINUALLY PURSUED THE ONES WHO APPEALED TO YOU – (EXCEPT FOR THE BAD LOVERS OR LOSERS WHO YOU IGNORED) – YOU STRAINED YOURSELF TO CREATE RELATIONSHIPS, IT WAS THEY WHO REJECTED YOU.
Rasa: Yes, it’s true. Again, people will say it’s an individual thing, they do this to me because they don’t like me, but I specifically asked many dozens of females throughout the last year, specific questions, and the girls told me they give them fake numbers, hang up on them, or ignore them after sex, so it is universal.
The question then, is what do we do about it?
MG: UNLESS A MALE FALLS IN LOVE WITH YOU, AND EVEN THEN THERE IS NO GUARANTEE OF FAITHFULNESS, ALTHOUGH HE MIGHT BE FAITHFUL IN SOME CASES – YOU HAVE TO PLAY THEM THE WAY THEY PLAY YOU, WITH NO SHAME OR COMPUNCTION OR PAIN.
IT IS WHAT IT IS, THE CLICHE GOES, JUST KEEP IT MOVING, AND LOOK FOR NEW MEN, AS THEY ARE LOOKING FOR NEW WOMEN.
Rasa: Is that the best revenge or strategy, then, play them like they play us? Be like them?
MG: YOU HAVE NO CHOICE. WHAT IS THE ALTERNATIVE? IN THE PAST, THE PROBLEM WAS THE LABELING, THE SLUT OR WHORE WORDS. BUT NOW, THAT WILL CHANGE – IT HAS CHANGED SOMEWHAT – AND YOU WILL HELP IT ALONG, BY BEHAVING IN A WAY OF SEXUAL FREEDOM, BY ADVERTISING WHAT YOU’RE DOING. YOU’RE DOING THAT ON FACEBOOK NOW, AND IN YOUR SEX REPORTS, EVENTUALLY, IT WILL HAVE AN IMPACT.
Rasa: Yes, it has been daunting. It started with Carlos way at the beginning. I called him every day for a week on his cousin’s phone (he did not have one, said he was always with his cousin, they living together) and never got a call back.
What alternative is there except to keep having one night stands, when they don’t want relationships, or else, relationships go bad?
MG: EVEN WHEN YOU GET A STEADY RELATIONSHIP, NONE OF THESE BOYS WILL FILL YOU UP COMPLETELY EMOTIONALLY, MENTALLY, BECAUSE THEY DON’T HAVE THE MOXIE OR STRENGTH TO DO SO, SO AFTER YOU SET ONE UP, AND CHAIN HIM DOWN TIGHT, YOU WILL HAVE TO EXPAND AND GET THE NEXT ONE.
Rasa: That seems tricky at this point, being that I don’t even have one – Marc has gone the way of the dinosaurs because of his greed, Kahmee was an addict and abuser, - do you have any suggestions how I can succeed?
MG: JUST KEEP DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING, WITH NO COMPUNCTION, LIKE I SAID. I AM INSIDE YOU, GUIDING YOU ALONG, TELLING YOU WHEN TO STAY IN ONE CLUB, WHEN TO GO TO THE OTHER, WHEN TO HIT THE STREET, WHERE TO GO FOR FOOD, ETC. I WILL GUIDE YOU TO THE RIGHT PLACE AT THE RIGHT TIME, TO GET WHAT YOU WANT, TO KEEP YOU OUT OF TROUBLE.
THE LAST FEW DAYS YOU SAW NO ONE YOU REALLY WANTED, SO IT WAS JUST SOCIALIZING. WHEN YOU SEE SOMEONE REALLY HOT YOU PULL OUT ALL THE STOPS AND YOU DON’T TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER, AND THAT IS THE WINNING TICKET. THE GUYS YOU MET IN THE LAST FEW DAYS, YOU GAVE THEM WAYS OUT, SO YOU DID NOT SNAG THEM, AS YOU DID NOT REALLY CARE, SO YOU HAD A SMALL DOOR OPENED FOR THEM, WHICH THEY USED TO GET OUT OF IT – NOT BECAUSE YOU’RE NOT HOT, BUT BECAUSE THEY ARE ETERNALLY STUPID, AND ALWAYS THINK IN THE NEXT FIVE MINUTES THEY WILL FIND A BETTER OR YOUNGER GIRL, AND IN THE END, EVERY GUY YOU HIT ON TENTATIVELY, WENT HOME ALONE.
Rasa: So you agree that not only are they assholes and pigs, but they are eternally stupid? Could you elaborate on that, on how they are stupid, when it comes to dating and relationships?
MG: THEY ARE FOREVER LIVING IN LA LA LAND, THAT THEY WILL SCORE WITH HOT, BEAUTIFUL WOMEN, WHEN THEY CAN’T EVEN GET THE AVERAGE ONE. THEY KEEP FANTASIZING AND PRETENDING THEY CAN GET THIS ONE OR THAT, IN THE WAY THAT SOME WOMEN PRETEND AND FANTASIZE THAT MEN LOVE THEM. YOU HAVE SEEN IT, HEARD IT, WHEN FEMALES DELUDE THEMSELVES, DELUSION IS A TYPE OF STUPIDITY.
IF YOU WANT TO GET ANYWHERE, YOU HAVE TO FACE FACTS. SEE IT JUST HOW IT IS, SEE THEM AS THEY ARE. MEN SAY WOMEN PLAY GAMES. WHAT THEY REFER TO IS THAT WOMEN ARE NICE, WOMEN PLAY THEM FOR DRINKS OR FAVORS, BUT DON’T GIVE THEM PUSSY. THIS IS TRUE IN MANY CASES, BUT TOO BAD. WHAT MEN DO IS FAR WORSE.
Rasa: It seems to me, Mother God, they are no different than us, and at base, they really want love more so than just sex, but to hear them talk, all males want or need is sex. What’s with that?
MG: THEY IMAGINE ALL THEY WANT OR NEED IS SEX, BUT IF THE LOVE WAS COMPLETELY MISSING, THEY WOULD BE VERY HURT. IF YOU, THE WOMAN, WOULD JUST USE THEIR BODY THE WAY THEY ATTEMPT TO JUST USE YOUR BODY, AND KEEP IT MOVING FOREVER, AND NEVER GIVE THEM ANY CARING, LOYALTY, FAVORS, AFTERCARE, OR ANY SORT OF RESPECT AND KINDNESS, THESE MEN WOULD BE ONE MISERABLE BUNCH – THEY WOULD BE BLOWING THEIR BRAINS OUT – WHICH IS WHAT MEN DO WITHOUT LOVE, IN THE END, THEY JUST KILL THEMSELVES ONE WAY OR ANOTHER.
Rasa: And also, when men don’t get love or sex, they become mentally ill, dangerous and violent. Most serial killers do so out of revenge for not having had love, and many loners, those who cannot maintain relationships, are the ones who end up killers. Without love, affection, relationships, they become dangerous.
MG: GOOD POINT. FOR ALL THEY SAY ABOUT NOT NEEDING RELATIONSHIPS, THEY NEED THEM MUCH MORE THAN DO WOMEN. End 9/5/09
RASA’S 11TH BOOK PUBLISHED!
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phone: 607 655 9391 607 655 9390
GURU RASA (RASA VON WERDER) OF WWW.WOMANTHOUARTGOD.COM & ALSO OF http://thefutureiswomen.blogspot.com/ RASA’S
GURU RASA IS #1 IN THE WORLD 4 FEMALE EMPOWERMENT http://matriarchynews.blogspot.com/
Created about Rasa, Facebooks:
I Took a picture of Rasa downtown (Rasa hanging out at clubs is the icon of youth)
http://www.facebook.com/n/?group.php&gid=33527994629&mid=105ece8G23c68245G2b1c63bG40
My Guru, Professor Rasa von Werder of University of MotherGod Church
http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/group.php?gid=30004066534
Rasa’s “Kellie Everts” Facebook Nice sexy photos:
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=117330&id=600212037#/profile.php?id=600212037&ref=name
Rasa’s MySpace has pretty photos:
http://www.myspace.com/rasavonwerder
Rasa: Mother God, I have been experiencing mostly bad treatment from men, and not being sure if it was personal, just me, I have interviewed many females, who are age 16 to 30, downtown, and the consensus from them, black and white, is that males are “assholes” and “pigs.” Those are the words most frequently used, there was not a dissent among them.
Now I know there is an argument to be made that women aren’t so hot, either, and males say women “play games.” And so, I ask for your take on this – what seems to be a universal agreement among women, and even many men, that men are pigs and assholes.
MOTHER GOD (MG): HAHAHA, MEN ARE ASSHOLES. WHAT YOU SAY IS TRUE, WHAT EVERYONE SAYS IS TRUE, THEY ARE ASSHOLES AND PIGS, FROM THE POINT OF VIEW YOU ARE COMING FROM – WHICH IS REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE, DAY TO DAY.
Rasa: OK. Now I know you are for real, if there was any doubt, Mother God, as you are not beating around the bush, just saying the truth, no quibbling. Here is what the college girls say, and here is what I say, of their behavior which makes them malicious:
· When they have sex with a woman, their “aftercare” is from Hell. I don’t mean the way most of them roll over and play dead after orgasm – that is bad enough, I mean the next day and week. They give you numbers that don’t work, or someone else’s number, or else, they hang up when you call or never call back, or else, when they see you on the street or at school, they act like they don’t know you.
It seems like always and forever, they want to “hit and run,” they want to do you, then pretend it never happened, so they can be footloose and fancy free for the next female, as they always think they can get someone new or better.
I have seen this at the clubs, and elsewhere. They are always searching, always prowling, you are never enough, they want to hit you one time, and it’s goodbye – I don’t know how any woman ever holds on to one of them. Why don’t they want relationships?
MG: THEY DO. BUT WHEN THEY INSTALL YOU INTO THE HOUSE OR MOVE IN WITH YOU, THEY, MOST OF THEM, WANT TO CONTINUE TO ROAM AROUND, FIND MORE WOMEN, YOU BEING THE MOTHER THERE WHILE THEY PLAY.
Rasa: Again, we think alike. But I am having the same objective, in that I want to gather a harem of hotties, spiritual husbands who I am in relationship with, and I don’t want monogamy, but variety. So will that make me a pig also?
MG: NO, THIS IS DIFFERENT. YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN RUDE OR CRUEL TO ANY MALE YOU HAD SEX WITH – THINK ABOUT IT. IT WAS YOU WHO REACHED OUT TO THEM, AGAIN AND AGAIN, IN PAIN AND HUMILIATION, CONTINUALLY PURSUED THE ONES WHO APPEALED TO YOU – (EXCEPT FOR THE BAD LOVERS OR LOSERS WHO YOU IGNORED) – YOU STRAINED YOURSELF TO CREATE RELATIONSHIPS, IT WAS THEY WHO REJECTED YOU.
Rasa: Yes, it’s true. Again, people will say it’s an individual thing, they do this to me because they don’t like me, but I specifically asked many dozens of females throughout the last year, specific questions, and the girls told me they give them fake numbers, hang up on them, or ignore them after sex, so it is universal.
The question then, is what do we do about it?
MG: UNLESS A MALE FALLS IN LOVE WITH YOU, AND EVEN THEN THERE IS NO GUARANTEE OF FAITHFULNESS, ALTHOUGH HE MIGHT BE FAITHFUL IN SOME CASES – YOU HAVE TO PLAY THEM THE WAY THEY PLAY YOU, WITH NO SHAME OR COMPUNCTION OR PAIN.
IT IS WHAT IT IS, THE CLICHE GOES, JUST KEEP IT MOVING, AND LOOK FOR NEW MEN, AS THEY ARE LOOKING FOR NEW WOMEN.
Rasa: Is that the best revenge or strategy, then, play them like they play us? Be like them?
MG: YOU HAVE NO CHOICE. WHAT IS THE ALTERNATIVE? IN THE PAST, THE PROBLEM WAS THE LABELING, THE SLUT OR WHORE WORDS. BUT NOW, THAT WILL CHANGE – IT HAS CHANGED SOMEWHAT – AND YOU WILL HELP IT ALONG, BY BEHAVING IN A WAY OF SEXUAL FREEDOM, BY ADVERTISING WHAT YOU’RE DOING. YOU’RE DOING THAT ON FACEBOOK NOW, AND IN YOUR SEX REPORTS, EVENTUALLY, IT WILL HAVE AN IMPACT.
Rasa: Yes, it has been daunting. It started with Carlos way at the beginning. I called him every day for a week on his cousin’s phone (he did not have one, said he was always with his cousin, they living together) and never got a call back.
What alternative is there except to keep having one night stands, when they don’t want relationships, or else, relationships go bad?
MG: EVEN WHEN YOU GET A STEADY RELATIONSHIP, NONE OF THESE BOYS WILL FILL YOU UP COMPLETELY EMOTIONALLY, MENTALLY, BECAUSE THEY DON’T HAVE THE MOXIE OR STRENGTH TO DO SO, SO AFTER YOU SET ONE UP, AND CHAIN HIM DOWN TIGHT, YOU WILL HAVE TO EXPAND AND GET THE NEXT ONE.
Rasa: That seems tricky at this point, being that I don’t even have one – Marc has gone the way of the dinosaurs because of his greed, Kahmee was an addict and abuser, - do you have any suggestions how I can succeed?
MG: JUST KEEP DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING, WITH NO COMPUNCTION, LIKE I SAID. I AM INSIDE YOU, GUIDING YOU ALONG, TELLING YOU WHEN TO STAY IN ONE CLUB, WHEN TO GO TO THE OTHER, WHEN TO HIT THE STREET, WHERE TO GO FOR FOOD, ETC. I WILL GUIDE YOU TO THE RIGHT PLACE AT THE RIGHT TIME, TO GET WHAT YOU WANT, TO KEEP YOU OUT OF TROUBLE.
THE LAST FEW DAYS YOU SAW NO ONE YOU REALLY WANTED, SO IT WAS JUST SOCIALIZING. WHEN YOU SEE SOMEONE REALLY HOT YOU PULL OUT ALL THE STOPS AND YOU DON’T TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER, AND THAT IS THE WINNING TICKET. THE GUYS YOU MET IN THE LAST FEW DAYS, YOU GAVE THEM WAYS OUT, SO YOU DID NOT SNAG THEM, AS YOU DID NOT REALLY CARE, SO YOU HAD A SMALL DOOR OPENED FOR THEM, WHICH THEY USED TO GET OUT OF IT – NOT BECAUSE YOU’RE NOT HOT, BUT BECAUSE THEY ARE ETERNALLY STUPID, AND ALWAYS THINK IN THE NEXT FIVE MINUTES THEY WILL FIND A BETTER OR YOUNGER GIRL, AND IN THE END, EVERY GUY YOU HIT ON TENTATIVELY, WENT HOME ALONE.
Rasa: So you agree that not only are they assholes and pigs, but they are eternally stupid? Could you elaborate on that, on how they are stupid, when it comes to dating and relationships?
MG: THEY ARE FOREVER LIVING IN LA LA LAND, THAT THEY WILL SCORE WITH HOT, BEAUTIFUL WOMEN, WHEN THEY CAN’T EVEN GET THE AVERAGE ONE. THEY KEEP FANTASIZING AND PRETENDING THEY CAN GET THIS ONE OR THAT, IN THE WAY THAT SOME WOMEN PRETEND AND FANTASIZE THAT MEN LOVE THEM. YOU HAVE SEEN IT, HEARD IT, WHEN FEMALES DELUDE THEMSELVES, DELUSION IS A TYPE OF STUPIDITY.
IF YOU WANT TO GET ANYWHERE, YOU HAVE TO FACE FACTS. SEE IT JUST HOW IT IS, SEE THEM AS THEY ARE. MEN SAY WOMEN PLAY GAMES. WHAT THEY REFER TO IS THAT WOMEN ARE NICE, WOMEN PLAY THEM FOR DRINKS OR FAVORS, BUT DON’T GIVE THEM PUSSY. THIS IS TRUE IN MANY CASES, BUT TOO BAD. WHAT MEN DO IS FAR WORSE.
Rasa: It seems to me, Mother God, they are no different than us, and at base, they really want love more so than just sex, but to hear them talk, all males want or need is sex. What’s with that?
MG: THEY IMAGINE ALL THEY WANT OR NEED IS SEX, BUT IF THE LOVE WAS COMPLETELY MISSING, THEY WOULD BE VERY HURT. IF YOU, THE WOMAN, WOULD JUST USE THEIR BODY THE WAY THEY ATTEMPT TO JUST USE YOUR BODY, AND KEEP IT MOVING FOREVER, AND NEVER GIVE THEM ANY CARING, LOYALTY, FAVORS, AFTERCARE, OR ANY SORT OF RESPECT AND KINDNESS, THESE MEN WOULD BE ONE MISERABLE BUNCH – THEY WOULD BE BLOWING THEIR BRAINS OUT – WHICH IS WHAT MEN DO WITHOUT LOVE, IN THE END, THEY JUST KILL THEMSELVES ONE WAY OR ANOTHER.
Rasa: And also, when men don’t get love or sex, they become mentally ill, dangerous and violent. Most serial killers do so out of revenge for not having had love, and many loners, those who cannot maintain relationships, are the ones who end up killers. Without love, affection, relationships, they become dangerous.
MG: GOOD POINT. FOR ALL THEY SAY ABOUT NOT NEEDING RELATIONSHIPS, THEY NEED THEM MUCH MORE THAN DO WOMEN. End 9/5/09
RASA’S 11TH BOOK PUBLISHED!
STOREFRONT AT LULU.COM: http://stores.lulu.com/rasavonwerder
phone: 607 655 9391 607 655 9390
GURU RASA (RASA VON WERDER) OF WWW.WOMANTHOUARTGOD.COM & ALSO OF http://thefutureiswomen.blogspot.com/ RASA’S
GURU RASA IS #1 IN THE WORLD 4 FEMALE EMPOWERMENT http://matriarchynews.blogspot.com/
Created about Rasa, Facebooks:
I Took a picture of Rasa downtown (Rasa hanging out at clubs is the icon of youth)
http://www.facebook.com/n/?group.php&gid=33527994629&mid=105ece8G23c68245G2b1c63bG40
My Guru, Professor Rasa von Werder of University of MotherGod Church
http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/group.php?gid=30004066534
Rasa’s “Kellie Everts” Facebook Nice sexy photos:
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=117330&id=600212037#/profile.php?id=600212037&ref=name
Rasa’s MySpace has pretty photos:
http://www.myspace.com/rasavonwerder
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